I can make something out of this

[The Comeback Kid]

Today, I attended a pre-registration meeting for my classes next semester. I got there a little early and saw a cute HB8 who I recognized from another class we were both in last semester (we didn't know each other then). We hit it off before/during/after the meeting, I sprinkled in some of my humor and we just kept going on two or three topics.

I also learned that a girl who HB8 gets along well with is also someone I know from a very small class I have (this girl was at the meeting too). This helps because the girl from my class is the "middle person" for now and will help me re-establish contact with the HB8 I met today...I hope. The three of us talked for a little while, so we all know one another a little bit lol.

The only negative from this was that I have no other way of finding this HB8 (other than going on Facebook, finding her name, etc., which I can do). The one and only option now is to ask the mutual girl about her. I have a good "in" - we have housing appointments at school next week. HB8 told me she is looking to live in an area that I would be looking at too. Obviously, the plan would be to ask if she wants to look at a place in the area to see what it's like (I have friends who live there). Regardless, this HB8 seems pretty cool and I feel it's worth a shot.

The only way I can do this though is through the girl we both know (I think). What is the best way to go about this? I will see this mutual girl on Monday, but I could also send a Facebook PM to her. I can try to use my creative "in" as an excuse here perhaps...any other ideas/suggestions about how to best go about this? I don't want to appear as some desperate creep or anything like that.

 

[The Comeback Kid]

Here are some options I have, let me know which one (if any) you like most:

A.) Communicate with her on Facebook. She has a pretty uncommon name, which is how I found her. I can add her as a friend, with a little note suggesting we look at the places in the area we are both looking at living for next year sometime early next week. I am not sure the exact C+F to use here, but I'll eventually figure it out.

B.) Go through the mutual girl in person. When I see her in class on Monday, I can mention how HB8 mentioned the thing about housing, etc. The good news here is that I may be seen as more casual (not someone who went Facebook searching) and maybe this girl will put in a good word for me (we get along). The bad news is that the girl may read between the lines and then the gossiping begins.

 

[The Comeback Kid]

My goal here is to (of course) get in touch with her and see if anything happens, but I don't want to look too desperate or too forward about it. In addition, I had began that "Sexually Invisible" thread last week - I don't really suffer from that concept itself, but I could be a little more aggressive sexually. I'd like to flirt a little bit here with the girl (sexual innuendos), maybe a little more than I normally would while also using some kino.