"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I can let go so easy

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I have always been able to let go real easy. Girlfriend of forever, yeah I let her go real quick (no joke).

The real intent of this post (other than the fact I haven't contributed much lately) is that this site also rules in the sense that it gave me the ability to let go of really hot girls that my dj skills aren't working that well on.

Say when I take a girl out for instance, she goes out once, but then I get the whole well I gotta (fill in the blank here with BS) so I cant go out with you on thursday.

I immediately forget about her and call my next number kickin around and if there isn't one then even better, I can go find some fresh chick to pick up.

Isn't being a DJ and having this site grand!

I wouldn't have forgotten about x girl above as quick as I do now if I was still an afc. I know I wouldn't.

THERE ARE TONS OF GIRLS

This is called nexting btw (of course I am saying this to yall that didn't know, all yall that did - werd!)

So next without thinking twice, regardless if it "could have" been great, you have the ability to make it super great with another.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yeah it is REAL easy to let go of girls you have only been dating for a little while.

Its a whole different story when its a girl you have spent years with. Although knowing this stuff certainly helps, just reaslising there are PLENTY of girls out there and so much fun to be had, makes it a whole lot easier.
 
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No, it's NOT easy when just getting a girl to notice you exsist is a miracle in itself. If you only get a date once every 3 or 4 years, then letting go is NOT an option.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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