Gusy, it's not the first time I feel tension in the air with a couple of chicks I dated. If it went well, good, no prob. If for any reason things went south (my fault, her fault, who cares) and we meet at an event - usually social circles are the same - there's always that fvcking tension like "we both know what happened", "you did that" bla bla bla. How do you deal with that? Is there any way to use this situation in your favour?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
I can feel the tension in the air.. what to do?
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