I thought for a long time how to explain what it feels like to be confident and what it means in general.
Question - is what I describe below what you guys would call GAME? When I heard the word GAME I always think of "phone games", "mind games" "negs" and other little TRICKS and GAMES. But is that what it means to have GAME?
Here is what it means to me:
When you are confident, you seek no approval or your actions and thoughts from other people. NOT JUST WOMEN.
Some of you may be different. We are all different in a way. Ask yourself "Am I different because I want to stand out or do I FEEL that way?" You need to feel that way! It should feel right to you, it should be YOU. That opinion and feel has to come directly from you and you should not give a f*ck about how others view it!
Believe me when I say that - you are NORMAL. There may be thousands like you, but you never met them. There is absolutely nothing wrong you EVEN if you different.
Lets give an example:
I love house and trance music. In America many people don't even know what that is and do not appreciate it. Will I change my taste in music? NO! I will love what I love. It doesn't matter if I am in a room with 10 people who like rock. If any try to put DOWN my taste of music - ignore them PROPERLY.
That dude thinks trance sucks? Guess what - he is worthless. He is BELOW you because he has no respect for your tastes and you should give NONE back and just ignore the idiot. Only respect those who respect you.
if all 10 people think it sucks - THEY are wrong! All 10! Why? Because when I go back to Europe and go to a club - I find 10000s of people who love trance and know its the best!
If you get LAID to as a way to get approval that you CAN get laid then you are still a LOSER.
Now, I know I have been talking about music, but same principle applies to women and applies to every trait you have.
If you can and enjoy being funny - do it, its great. If you are NOT and you enjoy more masculine approach - don't! Be yourself, just be your confident self and LOVE yourself.
People say that you should NOT be yourself. That awful. You may get laid, but you will realize that by getting laid you made yourself a loser since you GAVE UP who you are for SEX! You gave up your frame for instant gratification!
Go for women you WANT, do things you WANT, and don't let anyone stop you and make you think that what you did is wrong.
It may be hard to find that confident true self at first, but keep working at it.
I do not think any guy out there is a NICE GUY by nature (unless he has hormonal problems).
A nice guy is just any other guy but he doesn't let himself out. He doesn't let his instincts out.
With women you just have to weed out those who respect you and those who do not.
If I took twins and one said "I like a guy who can make me laugh" and another one says "I like James Bond type".
You can't be both!
You can't have every woman! If you try to be funny when you are NOT because a girl likes guys like that - you are a loser!
The idea is not to give up your true self for sex or else this sex will make you feel like it was THEFT. You stole something you do not deserve. You did not get the girl because she liked YOU, but liked the suck up you!
Some of you may find that you WANT to be someone else and its fine. Be what you want to be and do not seek approval from ANYONE.
What you WANT to be is what you already are on the inside really.
Haven't you been to class when teachers said "Do not be afraid to ask a question because others probably want to ask it too!"
This means your idea and plan and things you want to do are NOT very different from other's.
You are on a date and you want to kiss a girl - DO NOT FREAKING wait for any approval from her, from any signs or signals, for anything, but DO IT! Do it how you want to do it!
The idea is to find women who love you for being you and trust me - you can and should be loved if you LOVE YOURSELF.
That what I just described above is what I consider confidence and GAME.
I think it will get you more than tricks and tips and other crap.
Question - is what I describe below what you guys would call GAME? When I heard the word GAME I always think of "phone games", "mind games" "negs" and other little TRICKS and GAMES. But is that what it means to have GAME?
Here is what it means to me:
When you are confident, you seek no approval or your actions and thoughts from other people. NOT JUST WOMEN.
Some of you may be different. We are all different in a way. Ask yourself "Am I different because I want to stand out or do I FEEL that way?" You need to feel that way! It should feel right to you, it should be YOU. That opinion and feel has to come directly from you and you should not give a f*ck about how others view it!
Believe me when I say that - you are NORMAL. There may be thousands like you, but you never met them. There is absolutely nothing wrong you EVEN if you different.
Lets give an example:
I love house and trance music. In America many people don't even know what that is and do not appreciate it. Will I change my taste in music? NO! I will love what I love. It doesn't matter if I am in a room with 10 people who like rock. If any try to put DOWN my taste of music - ignore them PROPERLY.
That dude thinks trance sucks? Guess what - he is worthless. He is BELOW you because he has no respect for your tastes and you should give NONE back and just ignore the idiot. Only respect those who respect you.
if all 10 people think it sucks - THEY are wrong! All 10! Why? Because when I go back to Europe and go to a club - I find 10000s of people who love trance and know its the best!
If you get LAID to as a way to get approval that you CAN get laid then you are still a LOSER.
Now, I know I have been talking about music, but same principle applies to women and applies to every trait you have.
If you can and enjoy being funny - do it, its great. If you are NOT and you enjoy more masculine approach - don't! Be yourself, just be your confident self and LOVE yourself.
People say that you should NOT be yourself. That awful. You may get laid, but you will realize that by getting laid you made yourself a loser since you GAVE UP who you are for SEX! You gave up your frame for instant gratification!
Go for women you WANT, do things you WANT, and don't let anyone stop you and make you think that what you did is wrong.
It may be hard to find that confident true self at first, but keep working at it.
I do not think any guy out there is a NICE GUY by nature (unless he has hormonal problems).
A nice guy is just any other guy but he doesn't let himself out. He doesn't let his instincts out.
With women you just have to weed out those who respect you and those who do not.
If I took twins and one said "I like a guy who can make me laugh" and another one says "I like James Bond type".
You can't be both!
You can't have every woman! If you try to be funny when you are NOT because a girl likes guys like that - you are a loser!
The idea is not to give up your true self for sex or else this sex will make you feel like it was THEFT. You stole something you do not deserve. You did not get the girl because she liked YOU, but liked the suck up you!
Some of you may find that you WANT to be someone else and its fine. Be what you want to be and do not seek approval from ANYONE.
What you WANT to be is what you already are on the inside really.
Haven't you been to class when teachers said "Do not be afraid to ask a question because others probably want to ask it too!"
This means your idea and plan and things you want to do are NOT very different from other's.
You are on a date and you want to kiss a girl - DO NOT FREAKING wait for any approval from her, from any signs or signals, for anything, but DO IT! Do it how you want to do it!
The idea is to find women who love you for being you and trust me - you can and should be loved if you LOVE YOURSELF.
That what I just described above is what I consider confidence and GAME.
I think it will get you more than tricks and tips and other crap.
