Well, I see this problem as the women failing to realize her role as the pleasure-giver and the man to be given pleasure to. I suggest you give her some pleasure first, like putting some candy on your rod and have her suck it off; she will enjoy this very much. Or better yet, while she is sucking you can give her a temple-lobe or even a neck massage! I have used both of these methods and they work wonders. Of course first you have to defeat her b!tch-shield to get her sucking in the first place. Usually you can "split the bill" and offer to go down on her first, and then she will go down on you. You can also use "the bribe", where you give her some money (the bribe) and she sucks your c0ck, and she promises not to tell anyone. Among these methods there is also "bobbing for apples". Apples are a very healthy fruit indeed, so to pull this off you need to convince her your testicles are actually delicious candy-coated fruits, waiting to be enjoyed by her. Just ask her, "Would you like to go apple-bobbing?", and present your apples, and she will understand. There are many more methods described in my e-book, and for a fee of just 9.95, YOU too can have my patented come-ons! To order, just check my profile for contact info. Cheers!