“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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"I called you twice.... you never picked up"

amoka

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Alright here is a brief of the story. There is this girl at my school who is filthy rich... she bough my packing permit for the whole year. I invited her to one of my dance class and she came. After dancing, I invited her to go watch a movie together for which she repsonded "no problem, we can go". One thing I did not do was to set a time we can meet for the movie. So when I called her back and set up the time, she said she'll have to call me back and that she is "not sure if she can go." I said cool. She later called and I figured, she flaked out and won't be able to go so I did not pick-up the phone. She left a message saying she's sorry she won't be able to go because her uncle just came to town, bla blah... and suggested we go have dinner the following day.

I called her back three days later but she did not pick-up. Cool, really expected. I called back three days later, to which she responded she could not answer because she had a cold and had to go see a doctor. Trust me, this girl sees a doctor even if one of her eyeblow falls off...( not really..). We talked for a while... During the conversation, I suggested we go watch a movie saturday, to which she said "no problem" we can go. I said, I'll pick her up at 6:30pm. At 4pm, I received a test message stating that she's at the hospital to pick-up her X-ray. I told her to call me whenever she finishes, retriving her X-ray from the hospital. Later in the evening, she texted message again and said, we would have to go some other time because she came home very late.

Anyway, the following morning, she called and I did not pick up. She again called four days later and I never picked up... Couple of days later, we crashed into each other at the library. We talked for a while, she said she was on her way to class but would like to see my office. I told her to call me after her class and she can come to the office. After her class, she text message me and said, she would have to go home because she was hungry and that a storm was coming. I did not respond to her.

Well, friday came. I called her, no response. No big deal. And never called her the whole of the weeked. On tuesday, she called but I did not pick up, but she left a message: " what happened, I haven't seen you in a while. Call me whenever you get the message". Of course I did not call her. She again called the following day but did not leave a message this time.

Today when I was coming from one of my class, there she was coming towards me on the hall-way. I wondered if she was waiting somewhere for me to come out from the classroom but I don't want to be judgemental. She came and said,
HB: What happend, I called twice but you never picked up.
Amoka: Really? I was busy that's why...
HB: Ok... (we talked for a while and she said she'll call me after her class), well her class is well over now, but she did hasn't called.

Is this girl really playing game on me or what? Frankly, she is not the type that I'll call AW. She's a muslem, very humble... has anybody else experience situations such as this? How did you go about it?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dude are you nuts? What is up with this passive aggressive game you are playing? You made plans for the next day and you call three days later? When she calls, you don't pick up because you think you know what she is going to say? You are acting like a CHILD and so is she.

She is taking her cue from you. Quit playing these silly games and start being direct so you can understand if she is interested. If at that point she is flaking then MOVE ON. You tell her "look we are having a hard time getting together so I want to make a firm plan that you can stick to and commit. Ok?" So you get her to agree to that and then if she flakes you just Next her. But you need to set this up and make it known that it is a commitment to be there and there will be consequences if she does not show up or she cancels. Quit going around in circles.

But find the truth by picking up the phone and talking to her, and stop playing stupid passive aggressive games with her. No wonder she is flaking. You are being a total flake. Man up and find out her intentions by being direct, and if she is not responsive, MOVE ON.

regards
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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persistent exaction said:
Dude are you nuts? What is up with this passive aggressive game you are playing? You made plans for the next day and you call three days later? When she calls, you don't pick up because you think you know what she is going to say? You are acting like a CHILD and so is she.

She is taking her cue from you. Quit playing these silly games and start being direct so you can understand if she is interested. If at that point she is flaking then MOVE ON.

But find the truth by picking up the phone and talking to her, and stop playing stupid passive aggressive games with her. No wonder she is flaking. You are being a total flake. Man up and find out her intentions by being direct, and if she is not responsive, MOVE ON.

regards
You rant almost as well as I do! :up:
 

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PE was right on. You are being as bad, if not worse, than she is about this whole game playing thing you two are doing.

Call her up, say your tired of going around in circles, it would be cool to go out. Set a time, tell her neither one has an excuse this time. If she flakes, never call her again.

Seriously, how can you ask us whats wrong with her when you are doing the same thing right back?
 

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Eh, it doesn't matter what games you play or don't play now. She has an excuse for every date. Take the hint.

In the future, it's easier to just call and make a date. Guys like to call and ask to go out, then call and ask if she wants to go to a movie, call again and see what time, call again and see if he's picking her up. Just ask her all that crap the 1st time.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I agree with PE.

And I will be very honest with you. This sounds more like a game between two friends. Me say...you are in the Friend Zone.
 
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