BetterCallSaul
Master Don Juan
http://nypost.com/2014/11/24/girlfriend-dumped-via-restraining-order-after-a-girls-weekend-trip/
Not going to quote the whole article here but just read it - it's worth it. Here are a few of my thoughts.
1. Notice it states she had to pawn her earrings to afford legal counsel. Why? She's a g/f, that's it. All she had to do was GTFO according to the order and that's that. But no, she needs counsel apparently. Why? Because she feels she's entitled to some kind of "settlement" after being accustomed to this lifestyle.
2. Next we see the list of events this guy mentions from throwing glasses at him to dumping his crap into the pool. She's already crazy. Now not getting into a he said/she said argument here, but at least with the guy using this legal document he's got some type of protection for himself.
3. It mentions she has no place to go; aka, "found herself homeless". Ok, I get it that if you move in with someone and it doesn't work out, you gotta find someplace else. But she apparently has no resources of her own to do this. I can't find any sort of occupation or job this woman holds down at all, yet she just got back from a girl's weekend on the west coast. Yeah, guess who's paying for all this $hit?
4. Another thought on #2 above actually, this guy doing the protective order thing is a good move, imo. Think about it - she's mentally unstable so if he waited until she got back and told her "i'm breaking up with you", she'd flip out and go bats$hit insane. All it takes is her to call up 911 and say "I was raped", and then all of a sudden he's on the defensive for the next 2 years.
5. Speaking of rape above, if this story had come out with her calling in "i was raped" to 911, this story would be completely different with the guy struggling to save his public image, himself being the executive of a prominent financial company. And the story's headlines would be sympathetic to this 'poor woman' to suffer through such abuse.
Lessons to be learned here guys.
Not going to quote the whole article here but just read it - it's worth it. Here are a few of my thoughts.
1. Notice it states she had to pawn her earrings to afford legal counsel. Why? She's a g/f, that's it. All she had to do was GTFO according to the order and that's that. But no, she needs counsel apparently. Why? Because she feels she's entitled to some kind of "settlement" after being accustomed to this lifestyle.
2. Next we see the list of events this guy mentions from throwing glasses at him to dumping his crap into the pool. She's already crazy. Now not getting into a he said/she said argument here, but at least with the guy using this legal document he's got some type of protection for himself.
3. It mentions she has no place to go; aka, "found herself homeless". Ok, I get it that if you move in with someone and it doesn't work out, you gotta find someplace else. But she apparently has no resources of her own to do this. I can't find any sort of occupation or job this woman holds down at all, yet she just got back from a girl's weekend on the west coast. Yeah, guess who's paying for all this $hit?
4. Another thought on #2 above actually, this guy doing the protective order thing is a good move, imo. Think about it - she's mentally unstable so if he waited until she got back and told her "i'm breaking up with you", she'd flip out and go bats$hit insane. All it takes is her to call up 911 and say "I was raped", and then all of a sudden he's on the defensive for the next 2 years.
5. Speaking of rape above, if this story had come out with her calling in "i was raped" to 911, this story would be completely different with the guy struggling to save his public image, himself being the executive of a prominent financial company. And the story's headlines would be sympathetic to this 'poor woman' to suffer through such abuse.
Lessons to be learned here guys.