"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I call bullsh*t

Fatal Jay

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Weird thing has happened to me, for one I been talking to a 7 and an 8, sadly both have kids. The seven I been talking to for ten months and havent banged once, the eight I been talking to for four months and I havent banged her.

I screwed up somewhere I know because I been taking these girls out, the seven only peck kisses me,and the eight we have felton each other, and made out, but the seven told me she is not ready for sex, and the eight told me she wants to wait till marriage.

Come on now, these chicks both have kids, and now they dont want to have sex? It has to be some guys out there banging these chicks

I'm cutting them both loose, but i would like to know you guys input on these girls, and what you think is really going on in their minds, i'm a realest so I know it could be they both are not attracted to me sexually,lol.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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lol @ you taking single mothers out

failllllllllllllllllllllll

There is no way I'd be dating a chick for 10 months and only smashed once, you're their girlfriend OP and their playing for a sucker while I'm the guy who gets too smash the first night!
 

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Fetal Jay, if you're not getting a girl naked by the 2nd or 3rd date, then you gotta eject and move on.

10 months and 4 months is absolutely unacceptable. You gotta re-evaluate things.

Sorry, Fetal Jay.
 

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Fatal Jay, you're in a fatal mistake.

Providers aren't sexy unless you've got good looks. Don't you know it's sex first, then provider?

Judge nismo calls stupidity on your case. I've taken these women to chambers by the second night. 10 months? Oh my, these women have experience knowing and feeling how hard of a judge I am. Lots of it. All while you're being played for a sucker. :mad:

You are guilty of failing to bang, failure to realize they're not into you sexually, and being a provider. Your fine is 10 months with your hands and a 4 month vacation to Hopeless Hills, Mississippi. 2 of these will be in Lake Boringfriend, Louisiana.

Case closed. Get out of my court so I can begin my second menage a trois with these women for the day. They're about to get a very stiff punishment! :D
 

Fatal Jay

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lol I like this board and I'm 26. I know I made some mistakes and won't ever again make them.

Thanks guys.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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TillTheEndOfTime

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Fatal Jay said:
lol I like this board and I'm 26. I know I made some mistakes and won't ever again make them.

Thanks guys.
Yup. Waiting till marriage. What a joke. Only virgins have a right to say that. Not single mothers.

Do virgins still exist? Beyond age 12 these days?
 
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