"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I call and chick has no idea who the !@#$ i am.

gimmeyofonenumba

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I call and chick has no idea who the !@#$ i am.*updated*

wtf. She is an AW by the way, but iam prolly pursuing her when i shouldnt, cause i've heard all the stories of yall getting burned, but im really Fvcked up, i dont think she could possibly burn me, if anything she'd prolly be the one gettin hurt, anyways...

I knew her from class, we talked alot, even chilled with friends as friends one time, got her # on thurs. and i call today, the b!tch has no idea who the !@#$ iam! wtf.

(She starts namin off like all theese people(my name isnt pete, for security purposes)
me:"hey wasup its pete"
her:....hi
me:"what'd u do this weekend"
Her:"ohh is this pete from pittsburgh, or is this pete from tennessee."
Me: "wow AW you know alot of pete's dont you"
her:"ya blah blah blah"
me:"well iam w/e pete you want me to be"
her:....
me:"so listen what are you doing tommorow i wanna take you to blah blah"
her:"oh i dont have any plans, ok!"
her:"is this pete from one of my classes or something"
me:"hey listen, ima call you tommorow, ok?"
bye. *click*

WTF! all theese pete's makes it sound a lil intimidating for me, should i even bother with this? try to get into the sack, and if nothing just leave her? what should i do? BTW, thanks for reading i know this was long.
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Heyjose25points

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I don't have much experience at all really, but don't worry about it, she knows who you are, just probably knows more than one Pete, like you said. :p
 

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dude the bible is just a collection of posts like this one. Unless there is a post there EXACTLY like this one, it can't help you.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Weird that she doesnt kno which pete you are but still agreed to go out with you
 

gimmeyofonenumba

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alright, heres what i think im gonna do, im gonna call her tommorow, tell her she has 10 seconds to figure it out, or i hang up the phone.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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coolguy676767

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Trust me if you feel let down read this,

I met this girl off of myspace.com, and she actually goes to my high school, 1 year younger, hot and everything so we start talking we both like each other, talk for maybe 1-2 weeks for maybe 5 minutes every other day either on the phone or through aim, so we set up a date, and I ahve to cancel twice, but I am nice enough to cancel a day in advance, and it wasnt my fault my boss was being a ****, and then we set up a third date, she is totally fine with everything, still likes me, nice, not *****iness, but she has to cancel the morning of the date becuase her parents are going out of town for 2 days and she has to come with them and she didnt know it, but she says she is really sorry and says we can do it another time.

So about 4 days later she is online, and I just said hey, we talk about our day briefly, and all of a sudden she says "brb" so about 5 minutes later she signs off, well I have 2 screen names, so I could see that she blocked me, so I thought maybe she is busy and just doesnt want to explain anything, so I let it go, the next day I sign on and I am still blocked so I message her on my other screen name, "hey you blocked me, lol, maybe it was on accident, but a reason might be nice, ttyl, I g2g for now but I will catch you some other time" so now I am still fairly confident it was a mistake.

2 days later same thing, so I thought maybe her aim is screwed up and she didnt get the message or her comp froze, so I send another message, no reply, but she doesnt block my other screen name either, and it shows she is active on her computer and not idle, so now I am really confused. 2 days later after this I txt her and she says "who the hell is this", I explain, and not reply, so the next day, I send her another message saying "idk whats going on, just thought maybe your sister got your phone or something", then 2 days later, I send my last message that says "I will never send you another message, in fact i dont even know if I would go out with you if you apoligized, but I just want to know whats going on, still no reply.
 

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don't blame the w hore for acting the way she is, some DJs have some serious issues themselves they gotta work out to make the girl reply the way they have to. If coolguy or gimmey participate in the forum frequently, I've made a statement on girls you pick up from myspace.com, forget about those girls, the DJ bible can help too.
 

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Originally posted by coolguy676767
Trust me if you feel let down read this,

I met this girl off of myspace.com, and she actually goes to my high school, 1 year younger, hot and everything so we start talking we both like each other, talk for maybe 1-2 weeks for maybe 5 minutes every other day either on the phone or through aim, so we set up a date, and I ahve to cancel twice, but I am nice enough to cancel a day in advance, and it wasnt my fault my boss was being a ****, and then we set up a third date, she is totally fine with everything, still likes me, nice, not *****iness, but she has to cancel the morning of the date becuase her parents are going out of town for 2 days and she has to come with them and she didnt know it, but she says she is really sorry and says we can do it another time.

So about 4 days later she is online, and I just said hey, we talk about our day briefly, and all of a sudden she says "brb" so about 5 minutes later she signs off, well I have 2 screen names, so I could see that she blocked me, so I thought maybe she is busy and just doesnt want to explain anything, so I let it go, the next day I sign on and I am still blocked so I message her on my other screen name, "hey you blocked me, lol, maybe it was on accident, but a reason might be nice, ttyl, I g2g for now but I will catch you some other time" so now I am still fairly confident it was a mistake.

2 days later same thing, so I thought maybe her aim is screwed up and she didnt get the message or her comp froze, so I send another message, no reply, but she doesnt block my other screen name either, and it shows she is active on her computer and not idle, so now I am really confused. 2 days later after this I txt her and she says "who the hell is this", I explain, and not reply, so the next day, I send her another message saying "idk whats going on, just thought maybe your sister got your phone or something", then 2 days later, I send my last message that says "I will never send you another message, in fact i dont even know if I would go out with you if you apoligized, but I just want to know whats going on, still no reply.

Ummm yeah, this is the most pathetic thing I've ever read!!! I'm not insulting you to get you upset, I'm insulting you so you will get your game together and know that you NEVER chase or pursue girls, if you get in that mode you've already lost. After she blocked you, you should have let it go. You blew it by cancelling twice, so learn and move on. You let yourself down and then went into chump mode.

Read the Bible kid.


PIMP
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Pimp-sicle
Ummm yeah, this is the most pathetic thing I've ever read!!! I'm not insulting you to get you upset, I'm insulting you so you will get your game together and know that you NEVER chase or pursue girls, if you get in that mode you've already lost. After she blocked you, you should have let it go. You blew it by cancelling twice, so learn and move on. You let yourself down and then went into chump mode.

Read the Bible kid.


PIMP
Ain't it sad when guys try to 'one-up' each other by competing with their fvck ups? WTF are we coming to?
 

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She's a slut if she knows that many Petes. Call her, bang her, double-bag it. No romance. :p She's a throw-away, and if she starts flaking on you or giving you any crap whatsoever, that's exactly what you do with her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TRUST ME ON THIS ONE:

Forget she ever existed.

this girl is immature, and not worth your time. she is trying to play games with you becuase she doesn't care what kind of emotion she gets out of you.

you had a chance to play it smooth, you didn't move on to the next girl.
 

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Yup. She is a h0. No question. Forget about her stank a$$.
 

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alright, I didnt call her at all today, because it felt desperate on my part, so i decided to go with the something came up plan. Should i call tommorow or just forget about her alltogether? honestly, i feel really pissed.
 

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Originally posted by Triple X
Yup. She is a h0. No question. Forget about her stank a$$.
Oh man. Can i just venture out and sugest, maybe you didn't make an impression on her and she forgot about you.....

maybe next time instead of playing guessing games, just tell her who the hell you are.

or better yat, do something momorable so that she DOES REMEMBER YOU.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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