Hi, this is my fisrts post , i broke my 2 1/2 years relationsheep with my girlfriend. Im hurt and i think she feels sorry for me. I dont want she feel sorry for me, i only wants she knows that im the right guy for she. She write me today per msn, that she knows that i dont want to have more contact (like only friends) with her.And she want to lnow if im feeling better . I didnt respond to de msn , because of advises of my friends. I dont want that she feel sorry about me. Im really not happy know but i know i must get trough it.Im really interested in saving the relationship and she knows that, bat the problem is shes confused. She says she like me (after fast 3 years of relationship).Im his first sirious Boyfriend, and i was the first man that make love to her.Yesterday, she really wast shure about me, it was not a radical decicion, but she let me know that togheter we have no chance. She have autoestime problems, maybe she can carrie a relationsheep no more. She also told to me that she have no lust to have an other boyfriend, she wants to be alone (and i know thast true), she was very loyal, never told me a lie. I know that because this long time we where together. I dont know what to do now. Should i respond to ther calls or mails? or should i wait, and forget , let past the time, and wait until SHE really wants to se me again to be with me again)(and not as Friends) , please sorry about my english, but i did what i can. thank friends for this tip or advise, i need some answers to this.bye
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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
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MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
Your friends are giving you good advice. Don't respond to her call. Just move on with your life and never think she existed at all. She is 95% seeing some other guy! The more curious you are the more hurt you will be.. Let her go. That is what she wants..
hmm im sure this is the case of the 5%left. man i know what i said...it was a sirus and lovefull relationship, this is my 4 day withouth contact since i broke and i got a message today that says: hai, i want to know how are u? im very sad last time and i can be an our without thinking of you, hope u are fine. That was today, and i wrote as an answer that i feel sad as you are. No more...what advise can u give me guys in this situation? thanks for the help...
i've been in this situation before..
i can't and woun't tell you what to do..
But I can say that the only thing after a massive mind fcuk with my ex, the best solution to the scenario was to eliminate all contact with the girl. It worked wonders for you.
Now i'm not telling you to mimic my actions, because it appears as if your girl was a lot more loyal and straightforward with you, but.. take my scenario with a regard for my experiences - the moment that ***** walked out of my car in the rain in the middle of some ****ty neighborhood after we had our last talk -- it felt like a mountain was lifted off of my chest. The feeling WAS that releiving.
i can't and woun't tell you what to do..
But I can say that the only thing after a massive mind fcuk with my ex, the best solution to the scenario was to eliminate all contact with the girl. It worked wonders for you.
Now i'm not telling you to mimic my actions, because it appears as if your girl was a lot more loyal and straightforward with you, but.. take my scenario with a regard for my experiences - the moment that ***** walked out of my car in the rain in the middle of some ****ty neighborhood after we had our last talk -- it felt like a mountain was lifted off of my chest. The feeling WAS that releiving.
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MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
Her knowing that you are sad makes her feel better... It validates her choice to leave you... Like I SAID... don't bother contacting her, stop reminicsing.. The more uncaring you are about this breakup the better your chances are of getting back with her later on if that is your desire...