"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I break "the rules" and succeed!

God_of_getting_layed

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VegasGuy56 said:
Well if you have no problem laying 9s and 10s, let's see some pics.
oh, so now I gotta prove it to you? ;lol, as if its so hard to believe anyway. I lay 9's and 10's, what do you lay?

majority of the replies to my post are testimonials of people who have tried this themselves, and have experienced success, proof that being defiant of the DJ bibles teachings, ie. being expressive of sexual intentions, works way better. Being upfront and direct works, and it works well, way better than pretending that you're asexual, something most pathetic people on this board subscribe to. Obviously, my game works, and theres no doubt I do infact lay 9s and 10s.

And second of all, I dont give 2 sh1ts if you dont beleive me. if you dont beleive me, thats fine, I dont care. dont beleive me! :moon: Im sure someone who cant lay anything over a 6 probably would have trouble beleiving someone else is actually laying 9s and 10s. lol. ;)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Nighthawk

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Though there is some truth to the original poster's points, there is something about his desperation to 're-write' The Bible and prove SoSuave 'wrong.' that make me suspicious of his intentions.

If what works for you is not found in the Bible (and it is, has previous posters have pointed out), go set up your own site.

I am 38, I've tried both approaches many times, and in my experience sometimes a no-BS 'I want you' attitude will work wonders, but more often a quality woman will respond better to you being a challenge. Because women like a challenge, or do you disagree with that basic truth also?
 

Bvbidd

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They like a challenge as in you being worth getting that doesn't mean they want it challenging. They don't like when you pretend you don't like them. It's kind of sad really, because they can tell either way.
 
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