"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I blew it with jealousy...need some help.

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noobsauce

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That be good advice. I should listen to that but having trouble of letting go of a girl if I see one that I want. Oneitist at its best...or worst. However, you want to put it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Interceptor said:
I disagree on 'making' her anything.

I say find someone suitable and compatible , and let go of any manipulating.
Life is too short.
Who wants more drama and extra baggage?
Allow people to live their own life, and you live yours.
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I disagree because it's all a game, and these boys need to learn how to play it. Sure you can find someone to respect you, but that's boring. These guys want to be on top in their relationships, and not feeling like a deflated bag of sh!t every time they get involved with a woman.

Seriously, women are easy when your not desperate to have them. If they think that you can have your pick, they become strangely curious. They want the guy they have to fight for. They don't want some guy that vowing their lives to them. They want to fight to keep their man. They want drama. It's the truth, so don't sit by the phone and wait on them. Go out and meet many women. Get rid of your desperation that's caused by needing women. You don't need them, you only WANT them. Change your intent, and you've changed your game.
 
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