"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I blew it with jealousy...need some help.

noobsauce

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That be good advice. I should listen to that but having trouble of letting go of a girl if I see one that I want. Oneitist at its best...or worst. However, you want to put it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mavrick

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Interceptor said:
I disagree on 'making' her anything.

I say find someone suitable and compatible , and let go of any manipulating.
Life is too short.
Who wants more drama and extra baggage?
Allow people to live their own life, and you live yours.
I disagree because it's all a game, and these boys need to learn how to play it. Sure you can find someone to respect you, but that's boring. These guys want to be on top in their relationships, and not feeling like a deflated bag of sh!t every time they get involved with a woman.

Seriously, women are easy when your not desperate to have them. If they think that you can have your pick, they become strangely curious. They want the guy they have to fight for. They don't want some guy that vowing their lives to them. They want to fight to keep their man. They want drama. It's the truth, so don't sit by the phone and wait on them. Go out and meet many women. Get rid of your desperation that's caused by needing women. You don't need them, you only WANT them. Change your intent, and you've changed your game.
 
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