"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

I bed a hot 18 year old curious girl (with videos)

stevejabba

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 29, 2012
Messages
61
Reaction score
5
In this post I talk through the story of how I bedded an 18 year old standoffish, unemotional girl from Budapest, Hungary.

I also talk through some of the "alpha" stereotypes and point out the a lot of the dudes that write about this (i) Don't know what they are talking about and (ii) come from a place of residual bitterness and anger towards women and don't deep down feel they deserve hot girls. Be careful who you listen to!

Story is here:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Greasy Pig

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 22, 2009
Messages
1,675
Reaction score
102
Location
Australia
Good job OP. Yet another notch and rocking body too.
 

stevejabba

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 29, 2012
Messages
61
Reaction score
5
Greasy Pig said:
Good job OP. Yet another notch and rocking body too.
Hey man

Thanks.

To be honest I got past the point of caring about "notches" years and years ago..But as I haven't posted on here before, I thought I would post some reports as a means of introducing myself for those who haven't heard of me. This actually happened a few months ago, and I have only recently started filming this kind of stuff (I had some moral concerns about it).

Anyway, when it picks up where I am (South coast of Spain), I will be posting m0ar of this kind of stuff as I can tell from comments and stats that guys like it and it helps bis.

Cheers!
 

Greasy Pig

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 22, 2009
Messages
1,675
Reaction score
102
Location
Australia
I'll be happy to see any vids you post man. Keep on sarging.
 

stevejabba

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 29, 2012
Messages
61
Reaction score
5
Ruler said:
Great job man! Getting a girl to bed from cold approaches in public (at least at my age) is extremely difficult.
Keep sharing!
Hey,

Part of it is identifying your niche..Depends on your personality type. E.G I am naturally Sigma, meaning being a social dynamo is anathema to me. You'll find which works best with you quite naturally.

Location can make a big difference too, you don't want to be stuck seeing the same people again and again, equally you need a place to meet girls that is ideally friendly. Eastern Europe has hot girls, more so than most places but to a guy who'se new to this stuff it can be intimidating (can be a cold place)

Re videos, there's a bunch of infield videos on my site. I suspect I might get told off if I link but if you visit my site, you'll find them under "Videos", and you'll find access to my Youtube channel.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Building_and_Loan

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 25, 2014
Messages
413
Reaction score
247
Wait, do these ladies know they're being filmed and put online? I don't know man, congrats on the success and all, but that seems kind of creepy to me.
 

LMFAO

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 22, 2012
Messages
758
Reaction score
41
How does southern Spain compare London?
 

noheart

Banned
Joined
Feb 14, 2015
Messages
8
Reaction score
0
stevejabba said:
In this post I talk through the story of how I bedded an 18 year old standoffish, unemotional girl from Budapest, Hungary.

I also talk through some of the "alpha" stereotypes and point out the a lot of the dudes that write about this (i) Don't know what they are talking about and (ii) come from a place of residual bitterness and anger towards women and don't deep down feel they deserve hot girls. Be careful who you listen to!

Story is here:
your a piece of garbage
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Top