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Senior Don Juan
I don't know which section this thread should belong to, but since it mostly pertains to my **** I figured I would put it here. This is pretty embarrassing for me but I've dealt with this for a while and literally tried everything to prevent this post from happening, but I'm at a loss. I am 20 by the way.
I have had quite a few chicks. I used to be able to fvck six times a night for 30+ min each and still have the energy for more. I would be hard as steel and girls would tire out before I did. Lasting too long used to be my problem, now I can't fvcking last at all. I get whiskey **** too frequently and I don't even drink every weekend I go out.
I have been with my current girl for quite a while now. Getting hard is not a problem. Staying hard is. When we fvck I can only go on for like 7 minutes tops with the fear that my **** will get soft. What will happen is that I *** in like 2 minutes or I tire out at 10 and both circumstances are less than ideal. I still want to **** her. I have pictures of her boobs on my phone that I occasionally look at when in class or whatever. And through all of this she has been mostly understanding, but I can't help but feel that she is just saying it to be nice. She has been initiating it more than I have lately and I am always hesitant. I lost my desire to actually have sex, but I constantly think about it. I feel bad only because there is no way she will hang around if this happens for that much longer. It REALLY has put a strain on our relationship. I get moody over this and I rarely get moody. I try to be fun and light, but when I can't even fvck a girl properly i get pissed the fvck off. She is still hot as ever. She has the combo of boobs and ass that her friends would pay to have and I am wasting it.
Is it a physical problem? I can get hard. The time from my virginity to now is not a long time span so I can not attribute my problem to "age", I mean I am 20 ffs. I work out, I eat somewhat healthy now but if my friends go out to eat crap I usually join them. I play 4 different sports throughout the week with groups of people ranging from volleyball to racquetball and just plain old running. I don't jerk it a lot and I never really do (like once every several months) when I am with someone, but when I do it is not a problem. Just when fvcking as of right now, staying hard is my biggest problem.
Mental? Constantly worrying about it is not helping me. It's a never ending cycle. The more I worry the problem will worsen. You can tell me to "not think about it"...but it is not like I can just turn the part of my brain off. I WANT to forget about it, but I just can't. I can't even enjoy having sex right now worrying about this. I don't want to fvck anymore. It just isn't fun.
There are much bigger problems in my life than this right now, but right now this is the most frustrating. It happened again last night and this morning when we woke up it was just awkward. She rarely said anything to me and just made me feel like $hit. I would make light of this situation, but it has happened too frequently for me to even laugh about it now. What is something that I can seriously do to tackle this problem. And no, Viagra is not an option.
I have had quite a few chicks. I used to be able to fvck six times a night for 30+ min each and still have the energy for more. I would be hard as steel and girls would tire out before I did. Lasting too long used to be my problem, now I can't fvcking last at all. I get whiskey **** too frequently and I don't even drink every weekend I go out.
I have been with my current girl for quite a while now. Getting hard is not a problem. Staying hard is. When we fvck I can only go on for like 7 minutes tops with the fear that my **** will get soft. What will happen is that I *** in like 2 minutes or I tire out at 10 and both circumstances are less than ideal. I still want to **** her. I have pictures of her boobs on my phone that I occasionally look at when in class or whatever. And through all of this she has been mostly understanding, but I can't help but feel that she is just saying it to be nice. She has been initiating it more than I have lately and I am always hesitant. I lost my desire to actually have sex, but I constantly think about it. I feel bad only because there is no way she will hang around if this happens for that much longer. It REALLY has put a strain on our relationship. I get moody over this and I rarely get moody. I try to be fun and light, but when I can't even fvck a girl properly i get pissed the fvck off. She is still hot as ever. She has the combo of boobs and ass that her friends would pay to have and I am wasting it.
Is it a physical problem? I can get hard. The time from my virginity to now is not a long time span so I can not attribute my problem to "age", I mean I am 20 ffs. I work out, I eat somewhat healthy now but if my friends go out to eat crap I usually join them. I play 4 different sports throughout the week with groups of people ranging from volleyball to racquetball and just plain old running. I don't jerk it a lot and I never really do (like once every several months) when I am with someone, but when I do it is not a problem. Just when fvcking as of right now, staying hard is my biggest problem.
Mental? Constantly worrying about it is not helping me. It's a never ending cycle. The more I worry the problem will worsen. You can tell me to "not think about it"...but it is not like I can just turn the part of my brain off. I WANT to forget about it, but I just can't. I can't even enjoy having sex right now worrying about this. I don't want to fvck anymore. It just isn't fun.
There are much bigger problems in my life than this right now, but right now this is the most frustrating. It happened again last night and this morning when we woke up it was just awkward. She rarely said anything to me and just made me feel like $hit. I would make light of this situation, but it has happened too frequently for me to even laugh about it now. What is something that I can seriously do to tackle this problem. And no, Viagra is not an option.