Ok so I have a close group of friends and we've been friends since freshman year of high school. I wouldn't say we were losers. But we definitely were not the popular kids. They all lucked up and got a girl or 2 during high school and I was the last one to lose my virginity. I've never been socially awkward and could always hold a conversation. It just seemed like girls just didn't like me for some reason. I've always been the wing man to take the ugly friend away while my friends messed around with the pretty girls. I was ok with this cause they were my boys and I would want them to do the same for me. And one day I seriously wondered why I never got any girls. Because I wasn't even the worst looking one in my group yet I was the one who never got girls. So when I graduated high school I wanted to reinvent myself. So I changed my haircut started going to the gym. And acted as the person I wanted to be. (You know fake it until you make it) I looked at ever aspect of my life and tried my best to improve everything. I went to a lot of parties. To socialize with women and see what works and what doesn't. Got comfortable with rejection. I started to develop I pretty muscular physique to the point you could tell I lift by just looking at me. I started my own business and made sure my budget was on point so my finances were together. Slowly but surely started banging more and more women. And then I found out about the red pill. And everything started to make sense. Why I started getting girls now opposed to when I was in high school. I became alpha without even realizing it. So I'll get into my main point now that you got a back story to my situation. So since I became alpha I let my friends know how many women I started sleeping with. And they thought I was lying. Until I showed proof. (But I get why they thought I was lying.) I also became more financially independent. And I tried to help them by them become red pill. Since all of the success they've seen me have I thought they would be willing to know what I've learned. BUT NOPE ! I think they view our friendship as more of a competition. And I think since they viewed me as winning it seemed they didn't want to be that close of friends anymore. And everytime I try to help them I think they think that I'm trying to brag or talk down to them. I'm just so happy with the results that I've seen and I really just want friends who are alpha too. And more then that I see them headed down a dark path by getting oneitis for the wrong women and trying to get married at 23. And I already know how bad that's going to play out. I've made a lot more friends since leaving highschool and they're more like me. Into weight lifting. Having a lot of women. All about making money and self improvement. But I feel like if I stopped talking to them that I would be turning my back on them for my new friends and I rather teach them how to be successful like me.
So my question is
should I try to make them red pill still ?
And if any of you have ever had your friends take the red pill how did you do it ?
Or should I just stop talking to them and become friends with people who are more into the things I'm into at this stage in my life ?
So my question is
should I try to make them red pill still ?
And if any of you have ever had your friends take the red pill how did you do it ?
Or should I just stop talking to them and become friends with people who are more into the things I'm into at this stage in my life ?
