undesputable
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Anybody that things h2o did the wrong thing, maybe he did by seriously beating the **** out of the guy, but he deserved it... but then again my worst enemies are homos and feminists so maybe im a bit biased.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
i beat up a gay loser today
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Crowes,
No reason to get nasty. For starters, no, not all crimes are motivated by hate. White-collar crimes, burglaries, drug dealings, pedophilia, armed robberies, carjackings, arson, etc., are not generally motivated by hate.
For the abstract perspective, according to the Human Rights Campaign,
“A violent hate crime is intended to ‘send a message’ that an individual and ‘their kind’ will not be tolerated, many times leaving the victim and others in their group feeling isolated, vulnerable and unprotected.”
For the practical perspective, I will give two examples:
For Florida, a hate crime is “if the commission of such felony or misdemeanor evidences prejudice based on the race, color, ancestry, ethnicity, religion, sexual orientation, national origin, mental or physical disability, or advanced age of the victim:”
For California, there are two different statutes, so I will just cite one: “t is a civil right for a person to be free of violence or its threat against the person or his or her property, because of a person’s race, color, religion, ancestry, national origin, political affiliation, sex, sexual orientation, age or disability or position in a labor dispute, or because a person is perceived to have one or more of these characteristics--(bases of discrimination are illustrative, rather than restrictive).”
No reason to get nasty. For starters, no, not all crimes are motivated by hate. White-collar crimes, burglaries, drug dealings, pedophilia, armed robberies, carjackings, arson, etc., are not generally motivated by hate.
For the abstract perspective, according to the Human Rights Campaign,
“A violent hate crime is intended to ‘send a message’ that an individual and ‘their kind’ will not be tolerated, many times leaving the victim and others in their group feeling isolated, vulnerable and unprotected.”
For the practical perspective, I will give two examples:
For Florida, a hate crime is “if the commission of such felony or misdemeanor evidences prejudice based on the race, color, ancestry, ethnicity, religion, sexual orientation, national origin, mental or physical disability, or advanced age of the victim:”
For California, there are two different statutes, so I will just cite one: “t is a civil right for a person to be free of violence or its threat against the person or his or her property, because of a person’s race, color, religion, ancestry, national origin, political affiliation, sex, sexual orientation, age or disability or position in a labor dispute, or because a person is perceived to have one or more of these characteristics--(bases of discrimination are illustrative, rather than restrictive).”
MindOverMatter
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lol, this thread is hilarious.
on one side you have a dude that kicked the sh!t out of some gay guy who was masturbating to him, and on the other side, you have internet crimefighters/wannabe cops.
on one side you have a dude that kicked the sh!t out of some gay guy who was masturbating to him, and on the other side, you have internet crimefighters/wannabe cops.
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Not wannabe cops... just doing what needs to be done.
h2o
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the reason i feel comfortable asking for advice about it online is because i don't personally know any of you guys. you don't know the people i hang with or any of my friends/fam, and very few other users here are from north carolina...i doubt anyone else is from the raleigh area. so there's no way you knowing about it could affect me...unless of course, you threaten to turn me in.
yeah, that's almost exactly how it went. they weren't too pleased with the way i handled it either.
hey, thanks for the link. actually, i live in north carolina. i looked at the link you posted, and it states that for north carolina, "hate crimes do not include crimes based on sexual orientation." guess i got lucky.
i'm seriously not a bad person. i've never done anything like this before today. like i mentioned before, i'm usually probably one of the most laid back people you would ever meet. this is probably the only "crime" i've committed besides underage drinking and speeding, which don't even count. i'm harmless. i don't know what got into me.
i agree i need to learn to control myself better before i go and actually kill somebody. actually, i'm glad the guy used the ramp to exit the building (the building is circular)...because i'm afraid i would have thrown him down a flight of stairs had it been possible
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
penkitten
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how the heck could you see inside the bathroom stall to see what he was doing?
how do you know that he wasnt some crack head with diarreha?
the cracks in the bathroom stalls are not that big.
and if this guy had nothing better to do than to sit in a school stall and stroke his self, im sure he wasnt looking at the passers by, more than likely just looking at what he was stroking.( which doesnt exactly make him gay?)
and ... my question is ...
why in the heck did you even look in the cracks of his stall to see what he was doing? i am getting the funny feeling that if you honest to god peeked in the cracks of his stall, he too could consider you a homo.
i am not totally sure of what happened since i wasnt there, however it seems like a nasty hate crime to me.
how do you know that he wasnt some crack head with diarreha?
the cracks in the bathroom stalls are not that big.
and if this guy had nothing better to do than to sit in a school stall and stroke his self, im sure he wasnt looking at the passers by, more than likely just looking at what he was stroking.( which doesnt exactly make him gay?)
and ... my question is ...
why in the heck did you even look in the cracks of his stall to see what he was doing? i am getting the funny feeling that if you honest to god peeked in the cracks of his stall, he too could consider you a homo.
i am not totally sure of what happened since i wasnt there, however it seems like a nasty hate crime to me.
penkitten
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unless the dude says you did the hate crime because of something else.
TyTe`EyEs
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You should have spit in his face and left.
Deep Dish, don't take this the wrong way, please.
You are a fvcking idiot. I will try to show you the light. But I haven't the time tonight. It's not really your fault, I guess. But you have been puzzified. I will surely try to help. Your links made me want to fvcking puke. I will do what I can, the mainstream America hating media unfortunately brainwashed you.
--Crowes
You are a fvcking idiot. I will try to show you the light. But I haven't the time tonight. It's not really your fault, I guess. But you have been puzzified. I will surely try to help. Your links made me want to fvcking puke. I will do what I can, the mainstream America hating media unfortunately brainwashed you.
--Crowes
Giovanni Casanova
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You acted like the Colonel on "American Beauty".
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
DjDreamer
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The victems in hate crimes are targeted due to who they "are" not because of what they "did"...
H20 doesn't have a hate crime issue... he has an anger management issue...any straight man would be angry if something like that happened to him...I would be angry if something like that happened to me but the extent to which that anger would be expressed simply varies from person to person...
SELF-MASTERY
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Violent acts against the person are actually acts commited against the state... Looks like you have a nice assault charge.
h2o
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no, i haven't seen american beauty. maybe you should enlighten me.
seriously though Gio, what have i personally done to you that would prove sufficient motivation for trying to "turn me in"? the reason i am a bit concerned because i don't want to face criminal consequences even if that is the least bit possible.
maybe i just have anger management issues like djdreamer says. would you be happy if i sought a therapist?
i mean, i PMed you asking you to close/delete the thread, but you haven't respond, nor have you taken any such action. i feel like you're amused with the fact that i committed a "crime" and want to take the opportunity to not only make a fool of me but then to use this same thread as evidence for "turning me in"?
i think that makes you a bit sick yourself.
i could always say i just made everything up...but then i realized if my IP is logged and you were really dedicated, you could get in touch with the campus police here and put the bits and pieces together...of course, that's a stretch, but i don't want to take any chances...i've really started to get worried about how far you could actually take this...or maybe you're the one who's bluffing?
then again, if you were convinced i was lying about the whole event, i would lose all credibility here and be labelled a troll with a sick sense of humor, which is far better than facing prison time or a criminal record, but nonetheless bad as well.
i give up.
thanks to the guys who gave me some helpful suggestions.
i think i'll actually talk to a counselor or something about this...maybe i have some issues that don't usually show up in my everyday life that i need to deal with, who knows. i'll be more careful next time in controlling my anger.
i think with Gio's threat to "turn me in" i have a bigger problem on my hands now...
any suggestions on that?
or rather, do any of you know for a fact if it is actually possible to turn someone in based on something they just wrote on a forum?? the thing is, the guy who i assaulted was such a wuss he just ran off...i doubt he has as much of a problem with what happened (and realizes exactly why he got his ass kicked) as some of you do...*hint* Gio *hint*
seriously though Gio, what have i personally done to you that would prove sufficient motivation for trying to "turn me in"? the reason i am a bit concerned because i don't want to face criminal consequences even if that is the least bit possible.
maybe i just have anger management issues like djdreamer says. would you be happy if i sought a therapist?
i mean, i PMed you asking you to close/delete the thread, but you haven't respond, nor have you taken any such action. i feel like you're amused with the fact that i committed a "crime" and want to take the opportunity to not only make a fool of me but then to use this same thread as evidence for "turning me in"?
i think that makes you a bit sick yourself.
i could always say i just made everything up...but then i realized if my IP is logged and you were really dedicated, you could get in touch with the campus police here and put the bits and pieces together...of course, that's a stretch, but i don't want to take any chances...i've really started to get worried about how far you could actually take this...or maybe you're the one who's bluffing?
then again, if you were convinced i was lying about the whole event, i would lose all credibility here and be labelled a troll with a sick sense of humor, which is far better than facing prison time or a criminal record, but nonetheless bad as well.
i give up.
thanks to the guys who gave me some helpful suggestions.
i think i'll actually talk to a counselor or something about this...maybe i have some issues that don't usually show up in my everyday life that i need to deal with, who knows. i'll be more careful next time in controlling my anger.
i think with Gio's threat to "turn me in" i have a bigger problem on my hands now...
any suggestions on that?
or rather, do any of you know for a fact if it is actually possible to turn someone in based on something they just wrote on a forum?? the thing is, the guy who i assaulted was such a wuss he just ran off...i doubt he has as much of a problem with what happened (and realizes exactly why he got his ass kicked) as some of you do...*hint* Gio *hint*
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Can you read? He said multiple times that the dude opened the door, and was looking right at him! Read...
And Gio, enjoy the power trip while it lasts. You really should see someone about your addiction.
TyTe`EyEs
Master Don Juan
That's what I was thinking.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Giovanni Casanova
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Nah, I'm good.
Hornet
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This is post-9/11 baby. We don't need diddly.
Look, getting a rush of anger is normal. RETURNING to the bathroom and then beating him up ISN'T.
Do some soul-searching. We usually dehumanize what we don't understand, and then we feel justified in attacking it.
MindOverMatter
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man stop trying to scare the guy, and stop threatning him with legal action. it's not like he just walked down the street and randomly assaulted some gay guy.
if the situation was different and the guy was jerking off in the girls bathroom and he got his ass kicked by one of the girls, i doubt you'd see this kind of outcry. more like the girl would be labeled a hero for kicking the sh!t out of a disgusting pervert and her face would be on every newspaper cover and she'd get to have dinner with the dean. yet if a guy is in the same situation, he's getting threatened about being thrown in jail.
wtf is wrong with people? just because he's a guy doesn't make him less of a victim, and just because the guy who violated him is a weak ass homo doesn't make him any less of a pervert/offender.
my 2c.
if the situation was different and the guy was jerking off in the girls bathroom and he got his ass kicked by one of the girls, i doubt you'd see this kind of outcry. more like the girl would be labeled a hero for kicking the sh!t out of a disgusting pervert and her face would be on every newspaper cover and she'd get to have dinner with the dean. yet if a guy is in the same situation, he's getting threatened about being thrown in jail.
wtf is wrong with people? just because he's a guy doesn't make him less of a victim, and just because the guy who violated him is a weak ass homo doesn't make him any less of a pervert/offender.
my 2c.
Giovanni Casanova
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No, he assaulted a guy in the bathroom with premeditation and intent.
And the resounding chorus from the moron peanut gallery is "bravo for beating that homo".
There's a guy on this site admitting to doing some incredible dumb and illegal bullsh*t. The fact that some want to treat his retarded antics like some kind of heroism just confirms for me that this guy deserves to be turned in if for no other reason than to teach him what this site isn't: that his actions were wrong, criminal, and cowardly.
If he's not learning it here, he should learn it somewhere.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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