i attract mental disorderlies, hahahaha...bawling now...

[honeyshark]

Originally posted by princelydeeds
Help me Im slow, I don't understand your point. Is this yet another "NOT ALL WOMEN" post. Yes , there are gender differences, and I am pointing them out. Fat and ugly girls are still girls, and are subject to the same rules that apply to all women

This was not another "NOT ALL WOMEN" post. I think we can all safely say without any discussion that not all generalizations always hold. (BTW, I know the statement is paradoxical)

What I meant before is that men, like women, also choose poor mates a substantial portion of the time. I personally, and I am sure that I am not alone by any means, choose women based on physical attractiveness first, which may not be the best method of selection.

 

[honeyshark]

double post...

 

[Lionheart]

"i was so hurt because he is so special, one of those individuals, spirits, that you rarely come across in life. but i was scared that there was nothing i could do."

I don't mean to hate either but the truth is that 90% of people are like that, societal conditioning and acting 'normal' is what stops the 90% acting the same way, the ones that are 'special spirits' are usually just the ones that are ****ed up in the head enough to show their true selves so quickly.

The reason why these people are so unique is primarily because they have problems and a lack of understanding with others.

Let's face it, if this guy hadn't been so quick to display these characteristics then you would have just considered him another average guy right?

 

[Blue Phoenix]

Mini defense bible!

Some people that may be reading my posts may think that's a little "annoying" due to psychological references I make all the time. But I can't avoid this. The more you know about personalites the more you have the upper hand in your life and in relationships as well.

Watch out for personalites disorders such as: BorderlinePD/HistrionicPD/NarcissisticPD/Anti-SocialPD/Paranoic PD

The same way we study to seduce and attract women, we should also study to screen out sick people, such as those mentioned above.

Know how they operate so you can defeat them, here we go:

PROJECTION (projective identification).

"The narcissist/borderline uses projective identification. He feels bad through other people, his proxies. He induces unhappiness and gloom in others to enable him to experience his own misery. Inevitably, he attributes the source of such sadness either to himself - or to the "pathology" of the sad person.

The narcissist often says to people he made unhappy: "You are constantly depressed, you should really see a therapist."

The narcissist - in an effort to maintain the depressive state until it serves its cathartic purposes - strives to perpetuate it by sowing constant reminders of its existence. "You look sad/bad/pale today. Is anything wrong? Can I help you? Things haven't been going so well, ah?".

I HATE this sh!t called projective identification. BE CAREFUL WITH THIS SH!T!

I don't wanna make this forum repetitive, so I posted some links you should read (although you see "borderline" most of the time, don't worry, you have DIFFERENT info there). Beware with those types (have patience to read this stuff):

1. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=40403&highlight=borderline

2. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=37021&highlight=borderline

3. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=56492

4. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=55252&highlight=sadism

5. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=22967&highlight=rktek

6. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=52958&highlight=phonenix

7. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=55034&highlight=borderline

8. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=36115&highlight=histrionic

9. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16750&highlight=jester

10.http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=22457&highlight=dana

 

[diplomatic_lies]

Is it just me, or do girls love drama?

I dated this girl who THOUGHT up her own drama. So I stringed her along.

I was standing by a cliff scratching my balls, and she came up behind me. She must've not seen me scratching, because she asked me if everything was ok (why do people assume when you're looking out a cliff there is something wrong?).

Anyway....I said it quickly because I was embarrassed (I thought she saw my hand down my crotch). Then I pulled her inside quickly.

So then, the next day, she keeps bugging me about what was going on. I said nothing, maybe a little too quickly, because she thought it was something.

She still thinks I have some weird secret I'm hiding.

Women....


Oh....my advice: Run away from him. But you probably won't, since you're so dramatic.

 

[diplomatic_lies]

This post mysteriously deleted....


Actually its just a doublepost.

 

[NaturallySelected]

Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
Is it just me, or do girls love drama?

I dated this girl who THOUGHT up her own drama. So I stringed her along.

I was standing by a cliff scratching my balls, and she came up behind me. She must've not seen me scratching, because she asked me if everything was ok (why do people assume when you're looking out a cliff there is something wrong?).

Anyway....I said it quickly because I was embarrassed (I thought she saw my hand down my crotch). Then I pulled her inside quickly.

So then, the next day, she keeps bugging me about what was going on. I said nothing, maybe a little too quickly, because she thought it was something.

She still thinks I have some weird secret I'm hiding.

Women....


Oh....my advice: Run away from him. But you probably won't, since you're so dramatic.

lol this is so true, this AW I dated for a while used to do that. If I wasn't dancing around singing and talking about how beautiful all the fvkcing flowers in the world were then she'd say "What's wrong?" I would tell her nothing was wrong but she'd insist. This happend often so eventually I thought fvck it. She wanted drama so I made sh!t up. She was an AW anyway.

 

[Blue Phoenix]

Drama!

AW lives for her drama!

In fact that's why she LOVES jerks/bad boys. They put her in an emotional roller cooster!

Even though she's suffering, she's feeling good because of the drama!

That`s why they flirt a lot/like bad people and always make scenes. They can be fun, but with time you get tired of all their sh!t drama!

They live for drama. To them: indifference, fights, abusive behavior, controlling behavior, pain = exctasy, love! It's a drug to them, and they're addicted!

Normal people seem boring to them. And normal people around them can get drained out due to so much drama. Or you get crazy or you abandon her (which causes more drama, lol!).

She's empty, has low self steem and that's the only way she THINKs she can be happy. WHat usually happens, is that she ends up being used, you get the picture!

Do they deserve? Yeah, I think so!

I've suffered a lot whith these AWs. But once you "know" what they want. It gets easier not to get fooled and you can handle her they way they have to be (high maintenance, I have to say)!

Having a LTR with them is a waste of time, they're totally incompatible! They're just useful to have fun and throw them out later. Bad boys know this, and they get the most of this!

Good lesson for us, aspiring DJs!

 

[TooColdUlrick]

iqqi, WAKE UP!

the reason why you attract guys with mental disorders is because misery loves company. you love the drama, you crave it. the history of your posts in this forum proves it.

you're even doing "research" on it (e.g. HIM). you're all wrapped up in his twisted world and your loving it. you're rationalizing it because he's sooooooo wonderful. except for that little thing called suicide. he's sooooo rare too. but yet you hook up with dudes like this all the time?

the guy's a manipulator and you've fallen for it, AGAIN. small wonder.

don't you get it?

people like this are abuse MAGNETS. there is the giver (HIM) and the receiver (YOU). they find each other quite easily, like the mosquito finds the light. you are both satisfying the need to abuse and to be abused. he is loving dishing it out as much as you are loving receiving it. it is a match made in heaven.

i recently went out with this chick (who was a student of mine). she seemed very together, with our idle chit chat and such before class and during the break. when we went out she proceeds to tell me that she was coming off an abusive relationship and she's been in "recovery" for a YEAR! she tells me that she grew up in a commune; that she dated a professor in college and it didn't go very well; that her boss was sexually harassing her; that daddy left the family when she was 4 years old and she's never seen him since.

sound familar?

why in the fukk was she telling me all this cr@p? easy, she was SCREAMING at me....ABUSE ME TOOCOLD, PLEEEEEEESE, I NEED IT...I ASSOCIATE ABUSE WITH LOVE...TREAT ME LIKE SH!T...

buh, bye! i really felt sorry for her. 90% chance she'll always be like that.

i could have easily fukked her brains out at will and turned her into my sex slave by doing exactly what your wonderful new boyfriend has done to you.

but i didn't, because i am a MAN. your wonderful, pretty-boy is a twisted wimpy manipulator. but i guess that's his charm, huh?

end rant.

 

[ER!C L!VE]

So true. Misery loves company.

Pop some prozac, babe. If you're already on it, then switch meds. it'll do wonders for you.

I'm speaking for experience here.

Eric

 

[Blue Phoenix]

Abuse!

Bad boys abuse Aws,

Thinking that evey guy is abusive, in revenge, Aws abuse/frustrate good guys.

AWs get what they deserve.

I completely agree with the statement of being a man and don't abusing people around. But If I find another one, she'll be treated the way she deserves! Remember, she's not a real woman.

Don't treat a lion as a dog, neither a cat as a tiger!

If she's abusive, she's asking for abuse, so give it to her! Give to her a taste of her own poison!

You can't trust in snakes (hors), the only way to deal with them is to abandon her or control her (like people do with dangerous snakes).

Use the mirror on this stupid hor!