"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Should I attempt to have sex with a girl again (whom I had sex with before) after she LJBF'd me?

I did no contact for a month and a half. I broke the no contact thing (just as a test) and invited her to join me to the movies. She responded really quick and texted me like a half hour before we meet to see if I want to come over her place and smoke some weed first.

During our hanging out, I did absolutely no kino. I didn't bring up the friend's speech (and she didn't either). I was confident and laid-back the whole evening. We met around 8pm and departed one another around 1am.

Now, I won't contact her again. If she invites me out (as she done in the past when we were dating), I will test the waters and do some kino. Even may go all the way if she accepts my touching.

Should I? When she LJBF'd, she gave me two BS excuses. I'm too skinny and her family won't accept her seeing a black guy. I'm 5'10'' and 150lbs. Slim, but not skinny. She does have an issue in her past which makes her getting close with a guy a problem, but we had sex more than once.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Oh, I'm not trying to make her my wife. I'm not just focusing on her. I simply want to test out techniques and see how she responds to it. She's a great girl overall, and wouldn't mind keeping our friendship and occasional sex with her.
 
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Dude, a girl giving you LJBF after having sex is...umm...no, you need to write this one off.

That dog ain't gonna hunt.
 
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The only reason why I think that this can be turned around because of her past. I didn't make any AFC mistakes...after sleeping together the last time, I think it freaked her out. I guess this situation is hard to explain over the 'net.

Oh yeah, I know her first excuse was BS because the first time we got together, she was all over my body and admiring it. **** what she said. Her actions speak louder.
 
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AlmostThere! said:
Her actions speak louder.
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Yes they do. A girl telling you you're too skinny and her family wouldn't want her to date you (where the hell is your pride?) is taking the ACTION of saying "Leave me the fvck alone." Any attention you show her after that only further solidifies your position as the butt of her jokes. If a woman ever said that to me, I would banish her a$$, only for her to come after me like gangbusters when she sees me with hotter girls.

But that is my story.

Some white women will sleep with a black guy for the novelty of it, this one has tested the goods and make no mistake, SHE AIN'T BUYING WHAT YOU'RE SELLING.

Move on.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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