stuka1939
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DJDamage said:You didn't ask her out.
Saying "hanging out" could mean alot of things to a chick. I think the way this came out of your mouth wasn't very smooth and she easily read from your behaviour that you didn't really want to hang out but wanted more and you were being cautious and untruthful.
You shouldn't have apologized. Nothing really happened and you didn't ask her out. By mentioning that you are sorry for making her feel awkward, you actually made her feel awkward and validated to her that you in fact wanted to ask her out. Yeah and the last part was stupid too but you admitted and know you did wrong.
Well, the fact that we are co-workers (different departments) and the fact we were at work when the conversation took place....It was an awkward situation.
I think she gets the idea that by saying "hang out" she atleast knows I find her attractive and have some interest.
THe girl is my type physically and most of the IOI's were there, most notably she seemed very nervous around me. Obviously, it is not a creep me out type of nervous because she would of never asked me to take a break with her if that were the case.
I came close to saying, "If you ever break up with your b/f let me know", but thank god I didn't because that would of made me look like the biggest AFC loser.
