I asked for a number i get old number

[teakroy]

I asked a girl for a number .Of course she respond but after that phone always close.
She say she want's to be with me but phone is still offline and wants her to contact only internet i guess.

What should i do if she gave me a old number that she rare put in her phone?
Walk away on her?

She IS not playing fair with this.And she avoid to give me a straight answer with that phone. I will call today again but if is closed i will walk away.I dont like to only online text.. And additional details.
The chick i call i called only 1 time and i called in the same day after 9 hours so i wasnt stress her or something.

 

[gringoverde]

If you are communicating online with her, the idea is to push for the D2 (meeting up in person). The phone number is just a convenience. As long as you are able to talk with her, you are able to run game (routines), build comfort and escalate if needed. Obviously don't stress too much over one girls, but it sound like you still have ways of getting a hold of her. Occasionally a freeze-out is justified if she is playing too many games, but now is the time to get her attention rather than ignore her. Maybe try a routine that has higher emotional stakes to get her engaged?

 

[teakroy]

If you are communicating online with her, the idea is to push for the D2 (meeting up in person). The phone number is just a convenience. As long as you are able to talk with her, you are able to run game (routines), build comfort and escalate if needed. Obviously don't stress too much over one girls, but it sound like you still have ways of getting a hold of her. Occasionally a freeze-out is justified if she is playing too many games, but now is the time to get her attention rather than ignore her. Maybe try a routine that has higher emotional stakes to get her engaged?

I wanted to do the same thing as you.And thanks for advice but she is coming in the country after 14 days from now.

I know the more i talk the more i have the chance to screw things.You know.I really dont care about her phone number.I asked it online! Only to buy some more time you know to build a bit of mistery.
I closed the call after 1:13 seconds .If she was here the things was simple.Call her go out and meet.Simple as that but if is comming only in a few days.... I hope you understand. She kinda play me i guess.

If i talk to her only online text i loose her! Is crappy and it shows i dont have a own life.If i talk 1 time/ 2 times a day on a phone is better i have a better control .But if she tricked me with that phone number what is the reason to pursue her .

I will call her later if her phone is closed i will leave a message like this.

I was waiting to be sincere with your phone number .Because i was honest to with all.I called you but not response..
That is all .If she dont respond to resolve that i cut my looses and move forward.

 

[teakroy]

Common one more answer

 

[nismo-4]

Common one more answer

Judge nismo on the case. I'll give you all the answer you need.

Women who are interested in you WON'T CONFUSE YOU!!! Don't you get it? She's trying to keep you chasing her until the muscular millionaire she's been pining over becomes available. Don't believe all these mixed emotions and fidgeting and all this other sh*t. It's little to no interest. That's the damn truth.

Judge by actions not by words. She says she wants to be with you, yet makes no effort in doing so. She's avoiding contact with you. She doesn't want to bruise your ego. What the f**k does this tell you? Don't you know that a woman who wants to get with you will find a way to do so? Not the case here. Sorry. You really just won a crummy ass parting gift. Send that sh*t back.

Let me pass my verdict in simple talk: YOUR PRINCESS IS IN ANOTHER CASTLE! SHE'S NOT F**KIN' INTERESTED! SHE DOESN'T WANT MORE THAN FRIENDS/ EGO STROKE/ ATTENTION FROM YOUR ASS! NOW STOP TALKING TO THIS E-ATTENTION WH0RE RIGHT F**KIN' NOW. SH*T! AND SPIN MORE PLATES TOO!

Case closed.

 

[Boilermaker]

I asked a girl for a number .Of course she respond but after that phone always close.
She say she want's to be with me but phone is still offline and wants her to contact only internet i guess.

What should i do if she gave me a old number that she rare put in her phone?
Walk away on her?

She IS not playing fair with this.And she avoid to give me a straight answer with that phone. I will call today again but if is closed i will walk away.I dont like to only online text.. And additional details.
The chick i call i called only 1 time and i called in the same day after 9 hours so i wasnt stress her or something.

'Tis over, teapot.

Move on.

The quicker you move on, the better you'll feel.

We call it "NEXT".

And never expect women to be "straight with you".

They don't owe it to you.

Suck it up! Good Luck

 

[gringoverde]

"the more i talk the more i have the chance to screw things."

This is what Tony Robbins calls limiting beliefs. I'm guessing based on the way you describe the situation that this isn't the only one. The more abundance you have in the life, the more you are going to feel confident talking online, in person and on the phone. I've found that pursuing multiple leads at one time helps me be less caught up any one at a time.

If she is coming to the country in 14 days, then this give you the opportunity to start future planning and planting seeds for date ideas. Women are never going to be straight with you regardless of their interest level. They enjoy indirect communication. That's just how they are wired.

 

[alpha_ash]

Bad idea to directly state that you are upset because of her poor responsiveness. Just keep playing and see what happens when you see her in person. Texting/emails/phone conversations are flawed.

The real truth comes out in person. See how she behaves around you and ditch her if she isn't interested.

 

[gringoverde]

I used to think that it was hypocritical for women to get annoyed with us guys for "being emotional." After reading David Deida's seminal work The Way of the Superior Man, I've realized that it is our responsibility to play the role of the masculine in her life so that she can have the freedom to be emotional with us. Getting upset and reactive is going to back-fire on you. RSD has some interesting ideas about how to develop the skill of being calm under fire by creating emotionally intense situations.

If you are running proper push-pull, then you can push her away in a teasing way and make it feel more like a game than an angry reaction. I agree with Alpha_Ash that meeting up with her in person is the best way to get a read on what is actually happening. There's too little info in a text/email. Meeting in person there are many layer of communication giving much richer info.