"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I asked a girl to a dance

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DiMarzio

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There is this gorgeous girl i want to go for, we are friends atm, and i asked her if she would go with me to this school dance that i have in 2 weeks. She agreed and now we are going to go together. The only problem i have is that one of my friends spoke to her and she told him we only going strictly as friends, and she doesnt like me in that way..... so now im not sure if i should go for her, pull into her or watever, or if i should just stay away from those things and just spend time with her. wat do u guys think?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Nice Guy is Gone

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I think that if you really want to go for this girl, turn the game up a notch, just prior to, and definitely at the dance. Get her interested in you that way--make yourself irresistible, to where she will regret not saying yes if she rejects you.

Just my two cents, take it or leave it.
 
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Fall out, I would not go to the dance with her, I would chose somebody else. While, I believe it is possible to raise a womans interest level, my question is, how long is it until the dance? I would defiantly, work on myself to improve my masculinity, make sure you are a challenge, a mystery, and overall a challenge, then go get another girl, that way, she will go with you based on her attraction and interest level IN you, instead of just going as friends or for show. Do you see what I mean?
 
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This is a good opportunity to raise her IL. Take her to the dance and abandon her. Let her hang out with her friends. Go and dance with every other chick except your friend. However, occasionally go over and talk to her to see how she's doing just so she doesn't think you're a complete a55hole.

She's going to wonder why you didn't dance with her once. That will get her thinking about you and get her emotions running. Her IL will go up.
 
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