I asked a girl to a dance

[DiMarzio]

There is this gorgeous girl i want to go for, we are friends atm, and i asked her if she would go with me to this school dance that i have in 2 weeks. She agreed and now we are going to go together. The only problem i have is that one of my friends spoke to her and she told him we only going strictly as friends, and she doesnt like me in that way..... so now im not sure if i should go for her, pull into her or watever, or if i should just stay away from those things and just spend time with her. wat do u guys think?

 

[The Nice Guy is Gone]

I think that if you really want to go for this girl, turn the game up a notch, just prior to, and definitely at the dance. Get her interested in you that way--make yourself irresistible, to where she will regret not saying yes if she rejects you.

Just my two cents, take it or leave it.

 

[Mr. Cardio]

Fall out, I would not go to the dance with her, I would chose somebody else. While, I believe it is possible to raise a womans interest level, my question is, how long is it until the dance? I would defiantly, work on myself to improve my masculinity, make sure you are a challenge, a mystery, and overall a challenge, then go get another girl, that way, she will go with you based on her attraction and interest level IN you, instead of just going as friends or for show. Do you see what I mean?

 

[Desdinova]

This is a good opportunity to raise her IL. Take her to the dance and abandon her. Let her hang out with her friends. Go and dance with every other chick except your friend. However, occasionally go over and talk to her to see how she's doing just so she doesn't think you're a complete a55hole.

She's going to wonder why you didn't dance with her once. That will get her thinking about you and get her emotions running. Her IL will go up.