"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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virtual_insanity

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Going to university this year and want to see how you guys believe i will become the most popular, most wanted guy on campus. I have my ideas but really want to hear from some of the intelligent masses on this site.

Basically want to be Van Wilder :D
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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virtual_insanity said:
Going to university this year and want to see how you guys believe i will become the most popular, most wanted guy on campus. I have my ideas but really want to hear from some of the intelligent masses on this site.

Basically want to be Van Wilder :D
Well...if meeting girls is your number one priority then join a fraternity. Believe it or not, you can also meet some good friends in one...along with the bucket load of *******s. But anyways, yeah, that's an instant plug into a big social pipeline and all you have to do is play it cool and you will get loads of girls and have a great time. A lot of people don't like frats but they are haters...when you are in one it's a blast...trust me.
 

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Ha "popular".. you're going to learn when you get to college that popular isn't very valued. Now, there are some guys who may be "known" or "players", but it's not the same as high school.

Look, I've been in college for 3 years so far. I joined a fraternity, but only because I liked every single guy in the fraternity. They are my friends for life. Then I got a good job. Then I started getting my **** together and making good grades.

Only then, when I had my life together did I start brings girls back every weekend. There was a point where I felt like I had a line of women waiting to just get laid. Some nights I would have 3 - 4 options to go back to.

Now maybe I can't take all the credit- after all my school is 70% women (GREAT looking also). But I can tell you the most important aspect in nailing girls in college is getting to know people. You walk into a club or bar and know half the people there, you're already in with half the women. They know you're known and they wouldn't want anything less than to **** you and get the approval of ****ing someone who knows everyone.

Get your **** together, meet people, then be a DJ. It may come easier than you imagine.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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