"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I am working in a mobile phone accessories shop . Your advise of attracting GIRLS

don juan de me

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hi guys

I am 30 years old and I am average on look. I am working as a salesman in mobile accessories shop in a big shopping mall and approximately 95% of my customers are women.

There are girls who are 20s 30s years old and so on , are there any tips or techniques for those girls or all work on them whichever.

What is the best behavior I can adapt so that I can attract women and

what is the best body language , voice tone , posture , gesture and behavior I can use

Please guys I need DETAILS

thanks
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Your work location and job is a negative first of all, not the most appealing career for women (or girls, whatever you are seeking) as female instinct seeks out men with power, status, and fame (or at least successful financially).

I am also guessing you have to wear some sort of company attire or uniform? So you may not be able to 'dress with style'?? The reason I say this is how you DRESS yourself and express your STYLE will typically make or break a woman's first unspoken assessment of you visually. This will either make or kill your first attempt to interact with them verbally.

All you have left really is your sense of CONFIDENCE to APPEAL TO THEIR SENSES. You have to have incredible eye contact, sense of humour, charm, and wit to counter-act the work location/position you are in, even though you have access to a lot of women.

Not sure how you teach anyone those aspects, it is sometimes inherent to your personality, such as charm. That is another subject all on its own.

Good luck.

Exodus
 

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Think of the job as a free license to talk to any girl who walks by. She won't know for sure if you are talking to her because she is hot or because you want to sell her something. The hotter she is, the more you want to talk about phones.

Women are constantly on their phone and the cheap phone covers wear out quickly. You can develop your own neg-hits about the girls' phones. Make fun of a worn out cover; call her butterfingers if she has the big shock-impact phone cover. Tell her she could at least get a cover that matched her purse. Also tease any girl who walks by while looking down at her phone and not paying attention to where she is walking. You have a license to be a little obnoxious, as long as you keep it fun and try not to piss anybody off too much.
 

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You need to worry about attracting a better job as opposed to attracting girls.
 

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Thank you GotED? , Bible_Belt and PrettyBoyAJ for your replies but you got me wrong guys ...

I am an engineer worked in a big company , but this job is nothing but a second income for me and its a part time job and I own this shop so I can wear any style that fit me for good.

And my question is that how can I attract girls with my body language or behavior posture tone etc >

Thanks
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I was eating a bowl of corn flakes as part of a complete breakfast when I mistakenly swatted the bowl. It crashed into my glass of orange juice which spilled on my brand new white rug and my brand new suit ruining it. It'll cost $2000 to clean my rug and another $3000 to replace my expensive suit. It sucks. There's still loads of corn flakes all over the expensive rug.
 

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I work in the same industry, for a major wireless carrier in a mall and am finding heavy c&f and negs activate hamsters. Girls that are addicted to their stupid iPhones are generally high maintenance Instagram addicts, so a-hole game has got to be tight. Ride them hard on their celebrity sunglasses and social networking addictions. It's not a bad job to meet girls because EVERY girl is obsessed with their phones.

p.s. - to the smartasses who've got jokes about this job he's got, I don't know about an "accessory kiosk" but I work in a corporate store selling the devices themselves and you can make 50k as an average salesman. The good ones are making 65-70k and I'm 24 years old. The job is monotone, unfulfilling and smartphones feed the female ego beast but financially it is a great pit stop until I figure out a self employment vision.
 

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Actually, I think your job is great for attracting girls. Make them feel like you're giving them a deal on their cell phones or plans, and then just ask them if they'd like to grab a drink later. They'll feel as if they owe you. Afterwards, it's up to you to make a great impression.
 

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DJinBlue said:
p.s. - to the smartasses who've got jokes about this job he's got, I don't know about an "accessory kiosk" but I work in a corporate store selling the devices themselves and you can make 50k as an average salesman. The good ones are making 65-70k and I'm 24 years old. The job is monotone, unfulfilling and smartphones feed the female ego beast but financially it is a great pit stop until I figure out a self employment vision.
You've got to be kidding me, a phone salesman working for Verizon or AT&T or any other major carrier is not making ANYWHERE close to 50k a year, let alone 65-70 lol. You realize you're selling a cell phone? It's not really a high profit / lucrative field. People are bound to their carriers so when they walk in they either need a new phone because they broke theirs, or their contract is up. I'm not too sure if or how much commission these people make, but it is not a lot at all. My guess from doing research is they make around 30k a year, which is not respectable by any means.

Some car salesman don't even make 75k a year, and their commission on a $35k car is far more than the 150 bucks you make selling a $750 phone, assuming commission is as high as 20% which it isn't. If the pay was that good, you wouldn't be figuring out a self employment vision, I would take the $75k/year with zero education necessary and sit around selling phones all day. Gimme a break.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Stop giggling because you don't know what you're talking about. You haven't done any "research". I worked for one of those two major carriers. A coworker of mine made 64k last year. Before that I worked for a much smaller, regional carrier in a midwest state and made 40k working PART TIME. Yes, on 29 hours a week on average. The commission is an outstanding structure and guess what, the good ones used to make 90-100k. They've only cut back in the last 5-8 years.

You have no idea how profitable that industry is. They lock people into a two year contract for a small subsidy on a phone and charge them $100 a month apiece for airspace that costs pennies on the dollar. Those two carriers that you mentioned have 108 million customers each. Do the math and you can see why they pay their salesmen handsomely for closing the deal on another one. I'm working on my own plan because the hours are long, the vacation is infrequent, the work is unsatisfying and the micromanagement is outrageous. You have to sell your soul to their greedy vision.

We've gotten way off topic but I can't stand when a person goes off on a tangent with zero credibility. The fact remains he's got a good job to meet women.
 

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for those who encouraged me thanks a lot and by the way you have gotten off the topic LOOOOL

guys I need help in attracting those chicks body language-ly ?
 

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Lol, @ cellphone salesman making 100k. Ive known top cell phone salesman (for major carriers), and they dont make that. Hell, the managers who run the store dont make close to salary someone earlier was throwing around. Any research will show you that as well.

People dont really need to be sold on phones anymore. They know what they want before talking to any salesman most of the time. And plus contracts are on the way out. More and more people are going to prepaid.
 

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don juan de me said:
Thank you GotED? , Bible_Belt and PrettyBoyAJ for your replies but you got me wrong guys ...

I am an engineer worked in a big company , but this job is nothing but a second income for me and its a part time job and I own this shop so I can wear any style that fit me for good.

And my question is that how can I attract girls with my body language or behavior posture tone etc >

Thanks
According to Carlos Xuma, he knows of a guy in his late 30's or early 40's that has a hot Russian model girlfriend and he's 40 pounds overweight, and he works in an electronic store in the home theater section, definitely not rich, so that's definitely inspiring
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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