I am tired is her response. Does she like me?

[deslite333]

Ok, I go to Brookschester College and we had an away swim meet. The drive to the away game takes 3 hours, so 6 hours to go there and back. The game lasted around 3 hours.

Anyways, we come back to the college, and I know this girl named allie. She is our swim team manager. It's exactly 9pm and I ask her what she is doing tonight. She answers, "I'm really tired, so I'm going to go back to my dorm." Did she know that I was going to ask her for a walk or not? Was this just a nice way of saying no? I don't want to seem as a desperate AFC. PLEASE RESPOND.

 

[jakethasnake]

you're too late - you already sounded like a desperate AF.... nevermind. Someone else take this one.

 

[thebsharp]

HAHAHA thats funny cause i was in the exact same situation as you last week. What basicly happen was i met up with this girl for lunch, after her friend left, i ask her to go to my locker with me. While we were walking, she told me she was sleepy and tired, the whole time it was very uncomfortable. I thought i had lost this girl but i called her 2 days later and she act as if she still intrested, we set plan for next week already. Am still confused as to why she act the way she did last time.

What am trying to say is call her up again and ask her out, if she still give lame excuse then next her.

 

[jakethasnake]

Did it ever cross both your minds that a human being really does get tired from time to time? I've had mad school work for TWO WEEKS STRAIGHT, and you'd have to put a gun to my head to get me to go out tonight - even if you were a hot chick. Maybe she was at home reading a book and scarfing Cherry Garcia - just like I'm kicking back/typing posts/sucking on a beer.

 

[tristan22]

I guess everybody is different, however from experience if a girl uses the "i'm tired excuse" chances are she's not interested.

ex: In college, a girl came over to my house and asked me to go out. Keep in mind i had "zero" interest in this particular girl, so i told her "i have too much homework to do, maybe another time." Although i did have a lot of studying to do, if in fact i was attracted to this girl, i would have went out with her without question.

Your in college bro, forget this lazy a$$ bore and find someone who appreciates you. BTW, i hate when people complain about being tired. It's one thing being tired, but announcing it is just in poor taste.

 

[thebsharp]

Yea man... I think doc love said if you question a girl intreste level then you already lost her. I think i lost this girl but ill still date her anyway just to get experience.

 

[Walden]

It's stupid asking us if she likes you dude. Ask her.

 

[jakeyboy]

Originally posted by Walden
It's stupid asking us if she likes you dude. Ask her.

hahaha.... definitely the logical thing to do.

 

[deslite333]

UDK?

 

[deslite333]

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[stevera004]

Originally posted by deslite333
alright, i ask her out today ....and she said L8Ter...

A few questions,

First, even if she wanted to do homework early, she cant even spare 2 hours of her time to watch a movie?

Second, the field trip goes from 8am to 3pm, she has the whole evening to do her hw.

So when she said that she had homework to do, did she genuinly mean that or is that one of you girl's excuses of gently saying no?

but then there is also the fact that shes asian and she could genuinly be concerned about her homework (She was #1 class ranking at her middle school for academics)

also, when I called her, I called her room which meant she was in her room alone. So if she is in her room alone, does that mean she was really doing her hw?

Anways, the main question in, Does she like me? and also, when she said she had too much hw, was that just a nice way of saying no?

Please tell us you're putting us on. No real man can be this clueless, I simply refuse to believe it!

SHE'S NOT INTERESTED AT ALL. MOVE ON, THERE IS NOTHING HERE FOR YOU.

 

[deslite333]

but I kinoed her a few times and we hung out and she even kinoed me like held my arm to see what time it was or tugged on my arm to ask me something. (This was last week when I first met her with a couple of other people)

 

[thebsharp]

Man shes not intrested, just because she touch you doent mean anything. If you really that clueless and wanna know, just straight up and ask her out on a date instead of this getting together thing.

 

[Alpine]

I thought one of the key principles of DJing was not to home in on one chick at first.

All this, does she like me?, does she like me not? is not an issue. Go and chat up other girls, if she contacts you it's a bonus, either way you win.

 

[ExZen]

I was thinking of saying that one word
people use. Yes. (no, not yes.)

NEXT


The thing is, if she's tired one night/day,
and a conscientious student another;
try a third time on a different occassion.
Ask if she has homework. No?
Then ask her out. If she says,
"Oh.. I already have a date with my
gal pals... "

That's probably a good time to NEXT her.

AFAIK, most DJs would've NEXT'd her
the first time. I'm giving her WAY to
much benefit of the doubt.

ExZen

 

[bootlegger]

You are a sad sad man.


You shouldn't do anything for a while. Don't ignore her, but don't show her your value.

Give her the gift of missing you.


If she comes around you, asking what's wrong... then you still have a chance.