"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I am so sick of getting hit on by fat chicks

Between_The_Lines

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Out there somewhere, is a guy who wishes he could get hit on by any girl. Count your blessings..sort of..
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Peña

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Harry Wilmington said:
Your problem is one a lot of guys have: you're focusing on the WRONG stuff to try and attract women.

You're thinking logically that a woman is going to care about your statistics. Bachelor's Degree? Fitness coach? Bodyfat? Muscles? I guarantee you there is a high school drop out that's overweight somewhere getting boned by a Miss America clone. Why? Because he's learned the art of how to make a woman FEEL a certain way about him.

Should the things you mentioned put you at an advantage? Absolutely! But if you haven't learned how to talk to women in ways that have their panties wanting to drop, or how to walk/position your body/interact with them in flirtatious ways that make them FEEL something, all your "status" stuff is for naught. Stop leaning on your statistics to get you women and focus more on things you can do to turn them on emotionally.

backbeat said:
yea man wut u want to do is make a woman feel excited for u bro. get her pvzzy all tinglin n sh@t. thats wut master seducers do to women bro they get them all hot n sh@t tghen u can have em bro.

How can a man make a woman feel something when he is unattractive to her?
 

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I would be more worried if fat chicks didn't even hit on me at all.
 

synergy1

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I would say that this is how most women feel about the average guy hitting on them. But imagine it 5 times as frequently.
 

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Between_The_Lines said:
Out there somewhere, is a guy who wishes he could get hit on by any girl. Count your blessings..sort of..
Hear hear.

Girls who don't play these games of looking good and making the extra effort to look good, all to pursue the same kind of man are less likely to nitpick at your flaws. I am really trying to find why I was fishing for approval from women for years, or being outcome dependent. Why my parents were the only ones who told me I was handsome.

This virtual image of the 'hottie' was engineered mainly from TV and other media, and growing up with
a dozen other horny guys who act like that is what men should covet, otherwise you are gay. It nearly ruined my life.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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