So I just got home BY MYSELF. Tonight my friend and I met up with some chick he knew (she has a bf also). She had a hb 8 with her. I told my other friend wow her friend is totally doable Im going to do some work tonight. In my head I was like Im going to get on her. So I start gaming her dhv negging etc. she falls for all that stuff. We get back to my friends house. The one girl is with my friend in his bedroom (she was all over him all night) Me and the hb 8 are talking on the couch and she starts going kino etc blah blah. I basically ask her if she wants to come over to my house and well come back in the morning so she can drive her friend home. shes said yes. I then say go tell your friend well be back tomorrow morning. she goes in the room to tell her and then her friend was like "I have to go" to my friend. The hb 8 comes out and says she wants to leave. in my head im like what the fvck just happened. I played it cool though. I gave the hb 8 my number earlier in the night and told her to call me. (dont know if she will or not but well see). THe two girls leave then I ask my friend wtf. he claims she just did a 180 on him. so right now im mad cause I couldve been bonin a hb 8 as we speak.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I am so pis*ed right now unbelievable what just happened
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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woow I think this tells u to keep your mouth shut ...playa...
u never tell the girls friend your number one plan(next morning)....keep it yourself
And damns thats true u could have been boning that chick...
Good luck next time
u never tell the girls friend your number one plan(next morning)....keep it yourself
And damns thats true u could have been boning that chick...
Good luck next time
Did you get her #?I played it cool though. I gave the hb 8 my number earlier in the night and told her to call me. (dont know if she will or not but well see).
Loook at it again....Its a goner ....he is still waiting for the callPhyzzle said:Did you get her #?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Technical1
Senior Don Juan
I would never believe this kind of thing happens, if I didnt know that it happens. Can they really be this fickle and emotionally driven? If she wants to fvck you, doesnt she KNOW that? Why is it one second warm one second cold, tiny mistake oops everythings fvcked.
Phyzzle said it in another thread about flaking, when they are in-sexual-state then they become dissociative (right?) and forget about what is going on, and when they are normal again (not in sexual state) they cant remember what it was like or what happened, its all a blur.
This is apparently why a guy with the right moves, in the right place at the right time can fvck complete strangers that he meets off the street within half an hour, and a rapport-building, articulate cultivated guy can fvck up something that was so close to happening. So fvcking close.
Women's mating habits are probably part of the reason behind IQ reversion, or the reason why each generation gets stupider. Because increasing intelligence inevitably causes one to become more "cerebral" and thus take a step away from the testosterone side of our nature (well, given the direction that culture has taken in the last 100 years...), so of course anybody who thinks alot gets **** on and loses the game.
I have confirmed that female college students will have sex with drifters and drug dealers. It is a fact, just a cruel fact, it really happened with 3 girls I knew, maybe 4.
So the future being "Idiocracy" - a future world belonging to the slightly dull masses, where test scores slowly slope downward and science and tradition tails off in favor of pop-culture nonsense until economic collapse brings everything to ruin, is at least partly to be put tat the feet of female preference. Perhaps Ive gone too far with this.
Reading this post makes me think of all the times I was "almost there" and it really hurts.
Phyzzle said it in another thread about flaking, when they are in-sexual-state then they become dissociative (right?) and forget about what is going on, and when they are normal again (not in sexual state) they cant remember what it was like or what happened, its all a blur.
This is apparently why a guy with the right moves, in the right place at the right time can fvck complete strangers that he meets off the street within half an hour, and a rapport-building, articulate cultivated guy can fvck up something that was so close to happening. So fvcking close.
Women's mating habits are probably part of the reason behind IQ reversion, or the reason why each generation gets stupider. Because increasing intelligence inevitably causes one to become more "cerebral" and thus take a step away from the testosterone side of our nature (well, given the direction that culture has taken in the last 100 years...), so of course anybody who thinks alot gets **** on and loses the game.
I have confirmed that female college students will have sex with drifters and drug dealers. It is a fact, just a cruel fact, it really happened with 3 girls I knew, maybe 4.
So the future being "Idiocracy" - a future world belonging to the slightly dull masses, where test scores slowly slope downward and science and tradition tails off in favor of pop-culture nonsense until economic collapse brings everything to ruin, is at least partly to be put tat the feet of female preference. Perhaps Ive gone too far with this.
Reading this post makes me think of all the times I was "almost there" and it really hurts.
Interceptor
Master Don Juan
The other chick didn't want to be forced to spend the night with your guy friend. You were forcing a situation on to the girl that didn't have a way to get home. So she is controlling the level of sexual intimacy right now. She wasn't going to let you take over her power there. remember this girl HAS a BF already.
She is doing something 'illegal' in her mind. And isnt feeling quite comfortable doing it. And I dont blame her, I feel sorry for her BF.
I mean look at this. Here are two chicks, one who already has a BF hanging out with two dudes, and one dude wants to take her friend away from her.
No wonder they bailed on you.
This is how women work.
In addition, they both dont know you personally, so the GF in the bedroom took over resposibility for her friend that you wanted to bone.
She felt that her friend was going to make a bad decision with you, so she asserted authority and made the decsion for both of them to leave.
She's probably the alpha female, the one who asserts authority over the girls and is the protector.
She didn't want you to put ther and her friend in an awkward situation.
Plus, like I said, this chick with the BF is NOT going to stay over some dudes house with NO WAY to get out.
You cant force a cheating situation here. She is the one who will decide if she wants to cheat on her BF with your bud. Not you.
She didnt feel it was a good idea for her friend to go over some strange dude's house.
They both dont know you very well, and they werent going to to take a chance with you.
What happend was that your decision to have this other chick go over to your house only MAGNIFIED the illicitness the first chick was involved in.
Dig?
You made the first chick feel guilty and self conscious, and she asserted her authority over herself and her friend.
She is doing something 'illegal' in her mind. And isnt feeling quite comfortable doing it. And I dont blame her, I feel sorry for her BF.
I mean look at this. Here are two chicks, one who already has a BF hanging out with two dudes, and one dude wants to take her friend away from her.
No wonder they bailed on you.
This is how women work.
In addition, they both dont know you personally, so the GF in the bedroom took over resposibility for her friend that you wanted to bone.
She felt that her friend was going to make a bad decision with you, so she asserted authority and made the decsion for both of them to leave.
She's probably the alpha female, the one who asserts authority over the girls and is the protector.
She didn't want you to put ther and her friend in an awkward situation.
Plus, like I said, this chick with the BF is NOT going to stay over some dudes house with NO WAY to get out.
You cant force a cheating situation here. She is the one who will decide if she wants to cheat on her BF with your bud. Not you.
She didnt feel it was a good idea for her friend to go over some strange dude's house.
They both dont know you very well, and they werent going to to take a chance with you.
What happend was that your decision to have this other chick go over to your house only MAGNIFIED the illicitness the first chick was involved in.
Dig?
You made the first chick feel guilty and self conscious, and she asserted her authority over herself and her friend.
let me clearify somethings. the girl i wanted to bone had no bf. the girl my friend was goin to bone had a bf but has known my friend for a whil. My girl said immediatley yes when i asked her to come sleep at my house. I told her to tell her friend that we were going (i shouldve just said theyll know in the morning or I shouldve just fvcked her on the couch). her friend who has the bf probably snapped out of her drunken stage or she got uncomfortable with my friend and was like fvck i have a bf. Some of you guys analyze way too much sh!t its insane and doing that will drive you insane.
Interceptor
Master Don Juan
Well, I know the girl you wanted to bone had no bf.
But the girl that was with your bud DID have a BF.
Also, I didnt know you just wanted to vent your experience.
I was under the impression that because you were mad , you would want to know what was behind the incident and wanted answers.
Sorry if I made an assumption you wanted to find out what was going on and why. Most of the time when I see a post like yours, they want to find some answers.
But I think if one wants to understand why one is feeling some emoitons or thoughts, and wants to understand circumstanmces and why they happen and why one feels that way, then one HAS to analyze the situation.
It's called being Reflective, and using OBSERVING EGO.
I think that guys who DONT analyze situaiton to understand them better an improve themselves, and learn how to handle them when and if they happen again, are basically ignorant and immature people, who will eventually run into the same problems again and again. Some people call those kinds of people as just being 'stupid'. Because they 'never learn."
But you are correct when poepl are OVER analyzing something. THis is becasue of their lack of controlling Anxiety. And their projections of fear. OVER analyzing is not a good thing.
There are none so blind as those who do not wish to see.
Just something to think about.
Well, for anyone who is interested in thinking about it.....
But the girl that was with your bud DID have a BF.
Also, I didnt know you just wanted to vent your experience.
I was under the impression that because you were mad , you would want to know what was behind the incident and wanted answers.
Sorry if I made an assumption you wanted to find out what was going on and why. Most of the time when I see a post like yours, they want to find some answers.
Yes, this is what I was telling you.her friend who has the bf probably snapped out of her drunken stage or she got uncomfortable with my friend and was like fvck i have a bf.
I'm not sure if you are referring to me?Some of you guys analyze way too much sh!t its insane and doing that will drive you insane.
But I think if one wants to understand why one is feeling some emoitons or thoughts, and wants to understand circumstanmces and why they happen and why one feels that way, then one HAS to analyze the situation.
It's called being Reflective, and using OBSERVING EGO.
I think that guys who DONT analyze situaiton to understand them better an improve themselves, and learn how to handle them when and if they happen again, are basically ignorant and immature people, who will eventually run into the same problems again and again. Some people call those kinds of people as just being 'stupid'. Because they 'never learn."
But you are correct when poepl are OVER analyzing something. THis is becasue of their lack of controlling Anxiety. And their projections of fear. OVER analyzing is not a good thing.
There are none so blind as those who do not wish to see.
Just something to think about.
Well, for anyone who is interested in thinking about it.....
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Technical1
Senior Don Juan
Interceptor the analysis was really good. Seriously, I wouldnt have thought of all that stuff, but it all factors in!
Interceptor
Master Don Juan
I didnt mention that because I assumed that there were other factors involved, meaning, they lacked privacy.armadon said:You should have boned her on the couch. That's what I would have done but I have no shame.
If there was no one there, and they HAD privacy then this was a No Brainer.
So I dont know why he didnt follow through thne and there, which is the common sense thing to do.
it did cross my mind but I was drinking earlier in the night and when i stop i get tired and mr captain has a hard time. by the time i said lets go to my house mr captain probably wouldve worked. I shouldve boned her on the couch. Now im debating if i should contact her. Usually I give girls my number and tell them to call me. I would say about 85% do actually call me. I gave her my number last night and said call me tomorrow (today). I guess ill see. I could get her number from my friend if i really wanted it but it might look a little needy if i contact and say "hey i got your number from so and so you wanna hang out"