'I am seperated'

[Hikapo]

So anyways, I thought I was dating a great girl.

I forgot that seperated from the husband does not mean they are divorced. Just mean they are not together, but legally still married.


To me, separated means they are no longer husband and wife.

Its funny how we can have different interpretations.

Anyways, I just realized I am dating a chick that is still married.

Ouch. But I decided to cut contact and not get involved.

It was a great lesson for me, emotionally and mentally.

 

[Yes man]

I fail to see the problem here.

 

[Hikapo]

If she is still married, I don't wanna date a married girl, at least not until she is done with the divorce.

Plus, I might have to deal with the husband.

Not a wise choice.

 

[chosen2]

If she is still married, I don't wanna date a married girl, at least not until she is done with the divorce.

Plus, I might have to deal with the husband.

Not a wise choice.

I'm telling you as much as a man that has been through it all don't do it.If she has any feeling for him at all theres a chance they could work it out. God forbid if there are children involved

 

[bluenorther]

They say, "Marriage doesn't last, but divorce is forever." Even when they seem to have shut out the ex, they'll find a way to sabotage your relationship. Get a lot of great sex, and then wait for the door to slam in your face.