Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I am really into Gen-X women

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iP5IweRKcvQ

Unfortunately, I am 22 and they are in their late 30s and early 40s.

They are just a totally different breed. Think about who they were raised by- PRE Baby Boomer parents! That explains why many of them are so appealing. The vestiges of another world....Many of my high school teachers were in this age range.


This isn't really a question- just a mournful observation.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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^^Yes, but they are typically married. One of them called me "gorgeous" a couple years ago, and I've gotten a couple hugs/a couple in-depth conversations. That's as far as I'm willing to go with married women. But yeah, I seem to get them and they seem to get me. I tend to have a 20th century mindset in other ways (clothes,music, movies, hair length, speech) and we just seem to be on the same page. There's just something different about them than girls my own age. I really, really wish I was the same age; my generation's women are like a different species (and not in a good way).
 

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I dated a girl who was 47 before dating the 20 year old. Truth be told, the older one was 10 times better in bed, and a much more wholesome woman overall - her daughters were about 20 (and gorgeous).
 
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