"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I am pissed

Telos

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I just got cheated on. I feel like sh*t. I want to kill something. F*ck.

How do the rest of you deal with this kind of anger? I've been with her for a month now. It was getting serious. She now decides to throw it all away.

F*ck.

Sorry for the useless thread. I don't know what to do. I want to curl up in a ball and die. I feel like a ****ing failure for not keeping her sexually interested. I thought I was doing so well.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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it's her lost just NEXTTTTTTTTT!!! her, you'll get finer, funnier and more smart women than she'll ever be!.
 

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Remember, YOU are the prize. If she can't see that, than screw it and next her.

Don't let this sort of thing bruise you. It can happen to just about anyone.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Telos said:
I just got cheated on.
...I've been with her for a month - She now decides to throw it all away.

I want to curl up in a ball and die. I feel like a ****ing failure for not keeping her sexually interested. I thought I was doing so well.
Haha, nice troll post!!!
 

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Thanks guys. I am feeling a little bit better. I went to the gym and ran three miles... that took off some anxiety.

She doesn't know that I know and she keeps calling me to hang out this weekend like nothing is wrong. I could tell though in the tone of her voice that something was different. She wants to go camping. I'm thinking about getting her wasted, f*cking the **** out of her one last time, and then telling her what I know RIGHT after, and then that I never want to see her ever again.

Stupid c*nt. I want to break her heart.
 

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Time out!!! She doesn't know that you know? Fu*ck her then!! Don't let in on the fact that you know. Keep her around as some steady azz until you find someone better.

It's called "Game" for a reason. Play her azz!!
 

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Telos said:
Thanks guys. I am feeling a little bit better. I went to the gym and ran three miles... that took off some anxiety.

She doesn't know that I know and she keeps calling me to hang out this weekend like nothing is wrong. I could tell though in the tone of her voice that something was different. She wants to go camping. I'm thinking about getting her wasted, f*cking the **** out of her one last time, and then telling her what I know RIGHT after, and then that I never want to see her ever again.

Stupid c*nt. I want to break her heart.

One month, a single month - four to five dates (if you're a smart guy), you shouldn't even be 'exclusive' with this girl after one month. Why are you getting so wound up after only one month? :nono:

NEXT!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Telos

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Monkey said:
One month, a single month - four to five dates (if you're a smart guy), you shouldn't even be 'exclusive' with this girl after one month. Why are you getting so wound up after only one month? :nono:

NEXT!
Good point. I'm caught up. This girl was the best I've ever had. HB9. Young. Consistent sex. High IL. I got greedy and saw her too much. She still calls every day to hang out and I finally grew big enough balls to tell her no today.

I guess the AFC side of me is seeking validation right now from a forum. Go me. Feel free to deny it and tear me up.

I just needed to vent somewhere.
 
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