"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I am pathetic and desperate

passionman

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I recently had this girl move into my house.

she is extremely overweight and i just brought her a long because i am lonely. She doesnt have a job and is expecting me to partially support her. She also gets money from her reserve because she is indian. Man do I feel pathetic. She has been here for 2 weeks and i already told her i love her. I just feel like crap. I need to get my self-esteem up.


I have no backbone. I want to kick her out but im scared i cant find anybody else to **** in the mean time.


how pathetic am i right now?

anyway ways to try and booste my self-esteem? like any programs cause im just drinking all day long
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"if you believe in yourself.....I will believe in you":whistle: :crackup:
Dude you have a lack of confidence yet your on a site that teaches you how to better yourself. READ THE DJ BIBLE, what were you expecting a pity party WAH WAHWAH WAH i'm a lonely loser living with a fat ***** who is in the same situation with me but i don't have the drive to want to change and better myself.

You can start by kicking that fat ***** out of your house and reading post here on how to better yourself. I alone could go into much detail on how you can improve yourself, but you seem like the kind of loser who has always had people do **** for him. So if you actually want to help yourself then look for some useful post. Your situation will never get better UNTIL YOU MAKE IT BETTER. IN THIS LIFE RARELY DOES **** FALL IN YOUR LAP WE ARE MEN AND WE HAVE TO WORK FOR WHAT WE WANT. "Boy's get what they can and men get what they want"
 

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Do yourself a favor, my friend. MOVE OUT IMMEDIATELY.

Find a new place. Just leave. Don't look back. Ditch her, and change your number.

You don't want to put yourself in a situation where you're going to be miserable constantly. You need to change your surroundings and break free. Don't beat yourself up, focus on positivity! Go after what you WANT instead of despairing over what you have.

Having sex with a woman you hate will drain you dry. It's better to get a hooker than continue to be with a girl who makes you unhappy just because you can bang her. If sex is the only thing keeping you to her, use some of that money you're WASTING on her to get a hooker occasionally. Seriously. That way you can break free from this chick who's causing you to beat yourself up and be miserable.

Your happiness is the only thing that's important in life. Don't allow it to be lost over something as stupid as a sure thing.

Good luck,

Thundercat
 

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"I have no backbone. I want to kick her out but im scared i cant find anybody else to **** in the mean time."

LMFAO!!!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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passionman said:
I recently had this girl move into my house.

she is extremely overweight and i just brought her a long because i am lonely. She doesnt have a job and is expecting me to partially support her. She also gets money from her reserve because she is indian. Man do I feel pathetic. She has been here for 2 weeks and i already told her i love her. I just feel like crap. I need to get my self-esteem up.


I have no backbone. I want to kick her out but im scared i cant find anybody else to **** in the mean time.


how pathetic am i right now?

anyway ways to try and booste my self-esteem? like any programs cause im just drinking all day long


I'm going to go against the grain here a little and say that at least you've got something at the moment. It might not be what you want, but you're getting puzzy. At least keep her as a *uck buddy until something better comes along.

I guess the reason I think like this is the fact that I've been a long time without sex. There aren't too many girls I would turn down right now.
 

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My gut tells me that there's more to this. I'd go see a professional.
 

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Its like being an alchoholic. Admitting you have a problem is the first step to recovery.

Now, that you've admited it what are you going to do? Wallow in your sh1t or stand up and move forward?
 

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yes i am going to go see a professional. the other day i went to the doctor and got them to set me up. I got an appointment at the hospital for an assessment so we will see how it goes.

other than that, i think i just needed to here some encouragement...and thats wut I am getting. So thankyou for that cause i need to sharpen up. I mean she is such a slut i cant even trust her, she is telling me all these slut stories and it makes me feel like bad cause i know she is gonna screw me over


but yes thanks for the advice, i just needed to hear it.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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your not pathetic man ...**** happends man.times like these require soul searching read the bible man! and please if you have a gut feeling that yo feel miserable and something is going wrong go with your instinc and kick this overweight girl out man , because she will only caue you future problems.. and will only hold you back on doing the things you want..

whenever I feel like if am nothing I read the gunwich method in the bible and as soon as I am done I feel like if am on fire man i go out and say **** here iam !bring it and i get this huge confidence boost like a redbull but for your ego...(damn it feels good to say that)! just try it man
 

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passionman said:
I recently had this girl move into my house.

she is extremely overweight and i just brought her a long because i am lonely. She doesnt have a job and is expecting me to partially support her. She also gets money from her reserve because she is indian. Man do I feel pathetic. She has been here for 2 weeks and i already told her i love her. I just feel like crap. I need to get my self-esteem up.


I have no backbone. I want to kick her out but im scared i cant find anybody else to **** in the mean time.


how pathetic am i right now?

anyway ways to try and booste my self-esteem? like any programs cause im just drinking all day long
Are you serious with this post.....
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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**** you im not at troll. If you dont have anything good to say then gtfo cause my life is the ****s and i dont need people telling me that im not even worth the time cause im making it up. **** you!

and besides that yes she is very heavy....... im 220 and she is more than me and shorter.

but besides from that i think i am gonna kick her out cause right now i just do whatever she tells me to do.

I started reading the bible and i am a total AFC. She rewards me for sex when it should be me kicking her ass to the curb
 

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Use her for tax breaks

Indians dont pay taxes on ****


thats a plus
 
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passionman said:
I recently had this girl move into my house.

she is extremely overweight and i just brought her a long because i am lonely. She doesnt have a job and is expecting me to partially support her. She also gets money from her reserve because she is indian. Man do I feel pathetic. She has been here for 2 weeks and i already told her i love her. I just feel like crap. I need to get my self-esteem up.


I have no backbone. I want to kick her out but im scared i cant find anybody else to **** in the mean time.


how pathetic am i right now?

anyway ways to try and booste my self-esteem? like any programs cause im just drinking all day long
Yes congratz you have no balls and you DID A FAT CHICK! :crackup: Get yourself a hot clean hooker and then go to a strip club with some buddies, bring a stripper home and make sure your fugly bbw will see you cheating on her and then move out.
 
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yeah the appointment is on monday, so i'll tell you all how it goes.
When I got alcohol poisioning I had to see a psychiatrist and that was the biggest waste of my time. It was pure bullsh*t... they all say the samething. Do yourself a favor and locate your nutts and start acting like a MAN. Women talk about their problems cuz they're emotional... men do not talk about their problems but actually does sh*t to fix it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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