"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I am out of love and into boot camp!

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I know alot of people been seeing what i havent seen and I regret i did not earlier. I had to tie up my balls (as they say in mexico) and just cut my girl loose. It hurts bad but reality was hurting me much more.
So on to boot camp i go. well first i have this hot ass girl i been waiting forever to turn into a freak hoe (in a good way) coming by then saturday i am going to sarge at bluesfest and latin pride festival. wish me luck!
day one of a new chapter begins.. NOW ;)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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P.s. my text conversation from the new girl:
new girl: i dreamt about you last night
Me: haha :) oh yea? Funny i just had a dirty day dream about you
new girl: I can only imagine :)
Me: well i do have a pretty good imagination
new girl: well you wont have to use your imagination for much longer :)

I think i will get over my LTR much quicker then anticipated;)
 
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