You have to make the most out of what you have
Insecurity is the thing that will make a girl give up on you, not your physical height.
I'm Chinese also, and stand at just over 5'7". I lift weights a couple of times a week, dress well, and am involved in martial arts. None of the girls that I have ever dated made an issue of my height. In fact, on the few occasions the subject came up, they always guessed that I was a few inches taller than I actually am.
However, those aspects are secondary to what women really want.
When a girl asks me about why I'm dating them, I usually make a funny comment about how much I love her taste in shoes or purses.
IN CASE YOU HAVEN'T NOTICED, it's about giving them something NEW AND INTERESTING in their otherwise uninteresting lives.
If you can keep your girl laughing, then you have achieved something far more valuable than mere height will ever give you. You need to establish higher status by showing that you are stronger than them emotionally, by teasing them and making them ENJOY themselves at the same time.
Girls are looking for a GOOD TIME. This means you have to learn to direct their EMOTIONS in a POSITIVE manner, and have them associate those feelings of joy and warmth with YOU.
If you think less of yourself and show it, you will only convince them to think less of you, too.
