Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I just got off of the phone with one of my female buddies, and after she inviting my over for the upteenth time I realize I am just nice when it comes to women.

She is one of about 5 women in my life right now, and the thing is I dont actively chase 3 of them, 1 is my wife, the other is my concubine.

But I realise that the less I chase them, the more they chase me. I get invited to these chicks house all the time. I always randomly show up at their houses, but since Im busy and have such a huge rotation, it may be like once a week or every other week.

And not one of these women believe I am monogamous, Im always upfront, but they all just love me.

Since some of you are wondering Im one of those good looking dudes, with an excellent body. I dress very well, and have nice hair. But on top of that my game is sweeeeeet!!!!!

I always play mental chess, and make moves accordingly. When they pull back I push, then I pull back making them chase. I have a steal trap on my emotions, I refuse to be an unwilling pawn acting and reacting to some else's whims. That is what happens when you can't control your emotions, people will be able to push your bottoms anytime they want.

When it comes to "game" I say whatever is going to work. Since I keep my emotions under control I am never caught up or effected by the things I say.

Women are soo ez to deal with!!!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You're wife doesn't care that you're messing around with 5 women?
 

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Listen to this guy, he knows what he's talking about. Keeping your cool in ANY situation is a good trait to have.
 

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Originally posted by thefonz
You're wife doesn't care that you're messing around with 5 women?
When I first met my wife I told her then im not monogamous so she knew what she was getting into.

My teacher told me always put your cards on the table early so if she don't wont to play there is no emotion and you can just move on.

Plus I found out that the power of jealousy is needed if you ever want to be a prize. A chicked a got two weeks ago, i met earlier that day, then seen her later that night with my wife, the next day I went into her job and got her number. Another broad lives a couple of blocks down and knows my wife. Jealousy is a wonderful thing.

Plus I realized a long time ago Im grown, therefore if it isnt against the law I can do whatever I want to, you dont like it leave. Given a person options is more binding then forceing them.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by Royal Elite
When I first met my wife I told her then im not monogamous so she knew what she was getting into.

My teacher told me always put your cards on the table early so if she don't wont to play there is no emotion and you can just move on.

Plus I found out that the power of jealousy is needed if you ever want to be a prize. A chicked a got two weeks ago, i met earlier that day, then seen her later that night with my wife, the next day I went into her job and got her number. Another broad lives a couple of blocks down and knows my wife. Jealousy is a wonderful thing.

Plus I realized a long time ago Im grown, therefore if it isnt against the law I can do whatever I want to, you dont like it leave. Given a person options is more binding then forceing them.
Damn.
 

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A married guy fooling around with other women...
And a wife that allows it!

Gosh!@
 

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Your wife is an idiot...sorry...I mean, if she'll tolerate it, it's her own damn fault, but I still think she's an idiot.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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i agree with you borefire....but still this thread is boring as hell.....only "bragging" nothing funny or educative.
 

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Originally posted by DrSoSuave
Can you tell me why you come on this site then?
To let everyone knows it can be done. I have a friend here who has 3 wives, and they all know about each other, my cousin had 2.

Once you realize as a grown a man you can do whatever the hell you want it is really ez.

Originally posted by Wyldfire
Your wife is an idiot...sorry...I mean, if she'll tolerate it, it's her own damn fault, but I still think she's an idiot.
Like this comment from a chick is realllly going to make me feel bad in the morning-lol

Originally posted by Blue Phoenix
A married guy fooling around with other women...
And a wife that allows it!

Gosh!@
Wow you really need to get your head fixed. "A wife that allows it" wow! So you really get in relationships and become a child, because as a grown man myself no one "allows" me to do anything. I do what I please, when I please, but as the saying goes "those that can do, those that cant get pissed off at every one that can as he sits in his house watching porn all day"
 

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Originally posted by Double
i agree with you borefire....but still this thread is boring as hell.....only "bragging" nothing funny or educative.
I guess you prefer the afc post of "whining, and complaining" all day then. I guess it makes you feel better at night because after reading those post you dont feel like such a loser.

Game recognize game-so this is inspiration for all those who it is meant to be for. Just know that in the beginning off a relationship you can set any rules you want, dont wait until later.

Once it hit me that couples go out and swing every night, men lay down with men, and women "marry" other women, I realize that being with more then one woman and being honest about it is nothing. Just do it, and never explain yourself as if you are asking for approval.
 

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
Your wife is an idiot...sorry...I mean, if she'll tolerate it, it's her own damn fault, but I still think she's an idiot.
Why can't we be happy for a guy that has everything he's always wanted!! thru getting his game together and being a super great DJ that even his wife has to tolerate a few transgressions to be loved by him! I mean what difference is she to any other multiple long term relationship???

From a womans point of view she might be an idiot but from a mans point of view she's just another victim of his charm and attractiveness....

Wyldfire, whose side are you on???? I question whether your opinions are helpful... they always seem to have an angle where the female side seems to benefit immensely also...
 

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Originally posted by Royal Elite
To let everyone knows it can be done. I have a friend here who has 3 wives, and they all know about each other, my cousin had 2.
I didn't know Mormons can use the Internet. Are they changing the rules in the Grand Coven?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by diplomatic_lie
I didn't know Mormons can use the Internet. Are they changing the rules in the Grand Coven?
Im not mormon. I just follow those three golden rules "just do it"

If a guy can turn another straight guy out you can have more then one woman.
 

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You guy's giving this poster lip are stuck in the dark. He is dropping pearls of wisdom and your acting like jealous women.

I say congrads to this guy for having his cake and eating it two.

I can't wait to read more of what he has to say!

What you guys need to do is let your ego's go for a walk while you sit and listen to RoyalElite.

He already gave you wonderful clues. Put your cards on the table in the beginning. There was another poster on here whom I read recently that said the same thing. Too bad that man got banned.
 

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A wife, 3 gals, and a ... er... concubine?

Damn...

LoL

I suddenly feel so lonely....
 

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Originally posted by Keeper
A wife, 3 gals, and a ... er... concubine?

Damn...

LoL

I suddenly feel so lonely....
Dont feel down feel inspired.

By the way, being alone sometimes is not the end of the world. I like spending time with myself, I cant have women under me 24/7, they get annoying. Enjoy the time you have alone, have a life, and invite women in it, but let no one woman become it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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