"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I am insanely confused...

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TheCarGuyA4

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Ok, I am in this relationship with theis girl, we were good friends for a while and like one day she suddenly told me about all these feelings she had for me. Anyway long story short we are together and have been for like a month. Anyway she has been screwed over by a bunch of guys so she says she wants to take things slow and wants to wait before she kisses me. And by wait it's not like a few weeks, it's a few months. I try to tell her that I am not gonna play her like the other guys and stuff, to make her feel comfortable. In fact she even said one day that she was fighting the urge to kiss me. I need a little perspective from you guys on this matter. Thanks for the help
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Read the bible.

Theres a link at the top of the page.

You sure as hell need it.

I think that the best tactic in the meantime is to forget her. Red flags all over that post.
 
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Perspective? People typically kiss within a few dates. The girl has some serious problems entering into any kind of itimacy, or else she's playing you very badly. Months of waiting for a kiss, while she tells you B.S. like she's fighting the urge? Good grief ...

There is no need to break up with her, but since there is no physical intimacy (and even if there were) there is no need to be exclusive. Look for other girls.

A girl who won't kiss you is better than no girl at all.

You can use her to attract other girls.

Take her to places where other girls will see you with her.

She's basically your platonic friend. Nothing wrong with that. Just don't take on her problems.
 
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Yes huge red flags here.

Ignore what she SAYS and judge this relationship by what she DOES. You basically have a friend at this point and nothing more so treat her like that - go out with other women and use this person for something to do if you are bored. Ignore all the drama. She is most likely a mental case though so be prepared and don't get emotionally attached.

You have no relationship with her at this point.
 
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