"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I am In LOVE!!! She TOO!!

StoneCold

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Shes quite a Fatty and a shorty and i am tall and good looking with a hot body!!! but she has a beautiful face!! and personality that drawn me into her and i do love her....

I been using lots of game ways to stay ahead and keep power but i am always in doubt of trust because i have met so many evil women in my life which have scared me and now i am always paranoid..

its beautiful between me and her and she always tell me how much she loves me and only wants me .. i have told her how much i have liked her but never said the love word because of a bad past expirience... what can i do about this??? how should i say it ? will i lose power....

i only get to see her 1once 2wice a week coz she lives 50 miles away i drive she dont but dose come to see me by train when she really misses me....i think its good so that we dont get bored and drained...

we talk everynight for hours its always great and she tells me how much she misses me...

somtimes she mentions her ex and other guys not many and i dont really get jelous just use game to say hmmm yeah sounds great maybe you go out with them bla bla....

anyway everything is great the only problem is how paranoid i get when i am away from her, she dosnt know or anything because whenever im around her or on the phones its always different...

But im happy im in love and being loved... but it comes with lots of bad things too!!!!

Love is amazing..
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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premierxxx

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For how long have you been in love with her?


Love is a chemical response of your brain, it usually lasts 6 to 8 months. It is designed by nature to keep you with a woman and help her through pregnancy. You get love when you only have 1 girl. During love ugly looks beautiful because your brain is on drugs.


It sounds to me you only have this 1 girl, no other girls. And the girl sounds like desperate.
 

MisterMcGee

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Premier you're talking about lust. Love is what old couples have for each other.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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premierxxx

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Very well, indeed I was talking about lust. Sorry.

So two new questions. Is this lust or love? How long ago you met her? For how long you've been with her only and no other woman?
 

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I been with her for 4 months she always says she loves me so much and keeps saying it i love her too but i have never told her....

yep me kiss her alot passionatley tooo its well nice....

shes 19 im 24

all seems fine and its love not lust because shes not very fit i like her cute face shes quite chubby but i really like her personality... its amazing....
 

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obvious troll post
 

starplayer

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horaholic said:
obvious troll post
i really hope it is. if this guy's been on here for 6 years and posts something like this, it's kinda depressing
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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mtlwlu

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I agree, just something off about this, take a step back and assess the situation if you still feel this way in 2 weeks than congrats.
 

romangod

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StoneCold said:
You mean send her a bunch of roses to where she works???

It sounds like she'd prefer a box of chocolates.


Cheers!
 

DJDamage

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StoneCold said:
Shes quite a Fatty and a shorty and i am tall and good looking with a hot body!!! but she has a beautiful face!! and personality that drawn me into her and i do love her....

I been using lots of game ways to stay ahead and keep power but i am always in doubt of trust because i have met so many evil women in my life which have scared me and now i am always paranoid..
I think you are in love with a short fat girl because you know that in this relationship you are the prize and due to her lack of options she is going to stick by you. Its a buffer nothing more nothing less.

You keep this behaviour up and even this fat girl will slowly take control over your life.
 
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