"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I Am Imperfect But So Is Everybody

boulepiquante

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I LL FORGET I M A BT FAT OR I M NOT SO TALL
NOBODY S PERFECT
YOUGET RID OF AN EXCUSE AND HERE COMES ANOTHER ONE
LET S MINIMIZE OUR DEFECTS AND CONCENCRATE RATHER ON THE GAME !!!!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MOST of your defects/imperections are only what you make of them. I have a big nose but that does not stop me from a damn thing. I go out with chicks because I only let my big nose be what it is,1 thing on my whole body made of 2000 parts.
 

boulepiquante

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absolutely right BLINK
i wish more guys thought that way!!!
as a teenager i was hopeless with girls and then it started happening in my mid twenties
i was the guy with the same physical iperfections
simply a change of outlook made things possible !!
 
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