"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The past few weeks I have been having this issue where I feel NO drive at all for sex I used to want to masturbate like daily at least 2 to 3 times but in the past week or 2 that has died down really bad and i have no desire ( or that rush inside my body ) to want to relieve myself like i always did. Also, its ruining my sexual experience with my lady I do get into having sex with her but, when I start having sex I almost do NOT say anything barely I try to though and the sex is okay but, I am not fully getting turned on. Last week I couldn't even *** at all. I need some advice guys on what the reason of all this is? I haven't done anything different with meds or anything but I have been digesting ALOT of red pill constantly and been obsessed daily watching sandman videos and stardusk videos. It makes me so angry and mad about women I have NO WANT or DESIRE to want to go on match or POF to want to find women when I know reality. This is helping me I feel be more of a man and not give in to women. BUT, I am starting to really lose the feeling, want and desire to have women.

PLEASE HELP
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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thelonewolflegend said:
The past few weeks I have been having this issue where I feel NO drive at all for sex I used to want to masturbate like daily at least 2 to 3 times but in the past week or 2 that has died down really bad and i have no desire ( or that rush inside my body ) to want to relieve myself like i always did. Also, its ruining my sexual experience with my lady I do get into having sex with her but, when I start having sex I almost do NOT say anything barely I try to though and the sex is okay but, I am not fully getting turned on. Last week I couldn't even *** at all. I need some advice guys on what the reason of all this is? I haven't done anything different with meds or anything but I have been digesting ALOT of red pill constantly and been obsessed daily watching sandman videos and stardusk videos. It makes me so angry and mad about women I have NO WANT or DESIRE to want to go on match or POF to want to find women when I know reality. This is helping me I feel be more of a man and not give in to women. BUT, I am starting to really lose the feeling, want and desire to have women.

PLEASE HELP
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You care too much what others think about you and you are trying to do what others are expecting you, meanwhile you are turning into a slime with dumbed down personality, desires, and aspirations. I hear you taking medications of some sort. That can be a problem, stop taking your meds, it's not good for you. The only meds you can be taking are beer, vodka, weed. That's all.
 
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Leave this website. And other websites. Then, SEEK PROFESSIONAL HELP. Seriously. This is not to be mean-spirited, this can really benefit you and turn your life around.
 
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Who would have thought that keyboard jockeying could cause mania. Lol
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Shrinks are nothing but a bunch of pill-pushers though.

I think he should just quit the MGTOW bull****, that can obviously turn you off from women, and too much "PUA" stuff can also turn you off from women, as it removes the whole natural excitement of it all, making you jaded as fvck.

My initial thought: Just cut the crap OP, get a hold of yourself.

On the other hand: It could also be the meds.

A shrink would probably just give you some downers to make you nice and docile, or maybe some kind of Prozac anti-depressants or something.

I don't believe in shrinks as a go-to solution. Best thing is a good friend to talk to, maybe some actual spiritual work, or a refurbishment of your surroundings. Maybe you need time off from work, or maybe you need a better girlfriend.

If you try all those things, OP, and if you're still going crazy: then go see a shrink.
 
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