"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"I am going to my car now". An early test?

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Between (college) classes a few times she has said "I am going to my car now", presumably to see if I would tag along (supplicate). I figured it was a test to see if I would go AFC on her and go with her. I didn't take the bait.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Phyzzle

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Who? Who says this?
 
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Damn John Galt, who ARE YOU? Since 2003 man, and you're still confused my god.

You said,

"she has said "I am going to my car now", presumably to see if I would tag along (supplicate)."

Lol, I would have tagged along and tagged her azz in the car man.
WTF, stop leaving by these rules. The rules are really only to break you out of your comfort zone....break out of it and be VERY, VERY, fvckin sexual around them and you'll be fine.

I would have tagged her azz bro.
 
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