"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I Am Going To Abstain From Sex For 5 Days

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i have been fornicating so much as of late my life has been turned upside down. somebody just reminded me about it being march and i was like :eek:

i am thinking about going on a 5 day on/5 day off schedule. bonk like silly for 5 days and get my life in order the other 5 days. anyone else ever try and segment their life like this? does it work?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Do it by week, it's more organized that way.
 
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Flabbergasped? said:
Do it by week, it's more organized that way.
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i want to eventually get it up to at least 7 days. i am just hoping to make it to the 5th day now. i shall see.
 
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how the hell does sex make you forget what month it is?

sounds like a personal problem
 
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