I am Going Pariah(Herpes and LTR)

[rocksoff]

During the course of an LTR I had last year, My GF had told me she contracted Herpes (I was to blame she say's...). I never got tested and just assumed I had it because we ****ed so much. Well a year after our breakup(im 20 yrs) i have yet to see any kind of outbreak or bump or anything(still 75% sure i got it) and Cant afford the 200$ test to actually know.....well here is the point, Honestly I dont plan on telling any women Im gonna fvck I have it, I plan on wrapping it up 100% of the time(like I should have done before) and never getting myself involved in an LTR ever again...just **** lots and lots of women with protection and leave it at that.....All my focus will be directed towards school and working out and women are pretty much just gonna be there to fvck(with protection of course)......Herpes is a biitch(even though ive yet to excperience it,just the social stigma of it/thinking about it) but im also thankful I didnt get something worse and realize theres much shiitier things in life. I pretty much realize with this mindset any kind of LTR is a thing of the past now and any girl i meet is gonna be fvckbuddy only status. Just wanted to know how some other guy's would handle this situation because Its something id rather not talk about with people in my social circle THANK YOU FOR READING

 

[horaholic]

You are aware that most of the sexual population has the herpes virus but show no symptoms?

 

[theunflushables]

Are you also aware that just because its dormant in you that it wont necessarily be the case with who you pass it on too? And that condoms won't due sh1t to protect them because the herps are on your pubic area?

Save up, get tested, don't fvck anyone until you know. And if you have it make sure you tell them you have before you fvck them. No need to ruin someone life unknowingly.

 

[Dante420]

Are you also aware that just because its dormant in you that it wont necessarily be the case with who you pass it on too? And that condoms won't due sh1t to protect them because the herps are on your pubic area?

Save up, get tested, don't fvck anyone until you know. And if you have it make sure you tell them you have before you fvck them. No need to ruin someone life unknowingly.

How do they do the test?

 

[Splendidostring]

Thank you for reminding me that where I live we have a free health care system QC FTW

 

[Splendidostring]

Auraholic, not MOST of the population have herpes ....

Yet I know that syphillis is coming back on the market.

 

[ThatMysteriousGuy]

During the course of an LTR I had last year, My GF had told me she contracted Herpes (I was to blame she say's...). I never got tested and just assumed I had it because we ****ed so much. Well a year after our breakup(im 20 yrs) i have yet to see any kind of outbreak or bump or anything(still 75% sure i got it)

Are you sure she had it?

EDIT: Do you "get" what I'm saying?

 

[hansol]

Thank you for reminding me that where I live we have a free health care system QC FTW

Yeah gotta love universal health care. Don't really know why the Yanks are so upset about it...

Just the other day I went for my yearly test. Walk into the nearest free clinic:

"Doc, I want to see if I have any STDs. Just want to be safe and what not."
*doc gives paperwork to you, you drive to public health lab*
"Hey lab guy, my doc gave me these papers."
*hand papers to lab guy. You get your arm stuck for a blood test, and do a pee test*

*fast forward 4 days. You get a phonecall*
"Hi Hansol, this is the lab. You're good to go."

Canada is wicked. AB is even better.

 

[pua1989]

200 bucks for a herpes test? all the places i go to are free and i live in the US, but maybe its because im a student or something.

screw nationalized health care

 

[rocksoff]

Yeah...Im gonna get tested ASAP, it's a pretty ****ty feeling, no more ass pretty much, as you have to tell a girl this **** youre pretty much done ..wow i ****ed up

 

[eaglez1177]

You HAVE to get tested man. Doesnt matter if your using a condom or not; theres still a chance for the girl to get it. Save money and dont have sex till you get tested.

 

[SandHawk]

I'm not sure about you, but over here it's easy to get tested for free. They have special locations where you go to, tell them you ****ed a dude up the bum and voila, you're in the risk group and get a test for free. It's all anonymous aswell.

My insurance covers it, so I just get tested every few months, even tho I exclusively have safe sex. Sometimes girls try to pressure me into ****ing without a condom, but I just refuse. Getting STDs is ****.

 

[Sandow]

There are "clinics" in the US that do it for free or $20 at the most. Otherwise, if you don't have insurance, then you have to cough up $300 just to pee in a freaking cup! Lame!

Anyways, go find one of those clinics and get tested. And there are a lot of different types of herpes out there. Yes 95% of the population has herpes but it's usually a different form. If you ever had chicken pox then you have herpes. If you ever had the measles then you have herpes. If you ever had a cold sore then you have herpes. You get my point.

 

[rocksoff]

Think im just gonna abstain if i ever see anything fishy on my junk and wrap it up 100% of the time..theres no way i can just tell girls straight up,ill never see a womans body again...Talked to my doctor today and he said it's less than a 4% chance of getting spread if there is no symptoms and you use a rubber, and in my case, even less if i have it and have never had any symptoms(just got tested,pretty sure its +)......also i see how much of the population actually has it, pretty insane and most dont even know.

 

[ATX1001]

I contracted hsv1 on my **** while using a rubber - you don't just get it on your shaft but your balls/pubes as well. I've had 1 outbreak and had it confirmed by a doctor. My doctor told me that it's almost impossible for a man to spread it if he's not showing symptoms (ie open sores). It's possible for a woman to be contagious and not know it though. Also, most people have only 1 outbreak and that's it. I don't plan on telling any women I have it unless I'm in an LTR as it's hardly a death sentance..

 

[rocksoff]

Truly , I just DGAF anymore....im 20 and im not gonna deal with telling chicks they have a 4% chance of contracting by having protected sex with me,theyll be running for the hills and ass will be a distant memory im pretty sure its easy to keep from spreadin if you use protection every time and make sure you have nothing that looks suspicious on your junk AT ALL...id rather just act like one of the 60% of infected population who doesnt know they have it and be extra cautious in using protection and checking for symptoms. all i see this as now is no more LTR with girls ever, and thats actually not so bad

 

[theunflushables]

Rocksoff, you're only thinking of yourself mate. Go read Corvette06's post about his girlfriend giving him an STD because she was sleeping around behind his back.

After that imagine bagging some chick who goes home and spreads it to her boyfriend unknowingly. Yeah she is cvnt for sleeping around on him, but why ruin someones life.

Before you get too down on yourself go get tested. You might not even have it at all and you've been scaring yourself this whole time.

 

[pua1989]

haha dude i think ur plan is fine. to be honest, you probably dont even have herpes...HPV maybe (just because its so common) 1 out of ever 2 men and women will get it once in their life but HPV is more of a danger for women. with men, your body eventually gets rid of it (1-2 years) and you may have 1 or 2 outbreaks of some warts (sounds gross when talkin about it). but anyway, like my buddy says: "i dont get tested...my caaack just itches for a few weeks and then im all good"

also, almost nothin a little penicillin cant cure

 

[magickarl]

Get the damn test. Its win-win. $200 isnt so expensive considering the closure it will bring. If you have a job, there is no excuse for not being able to produce that money in a reasonable amount of time. If you don't have a job, get one.

If you test negative, start banging *****es. This time wear a rubber like you should have done all along.

If you test positive, now you can bang all the girls with herpes you want.

 

[ATX1001]

After that imagine bagging some chick who goes home and spreads it to her boyfriend unknowingly. Yeah she is cvnt for sleeping around on him, but why ruin someones life.

Ruin someones life? As I said above, herpes is not HIV. If we're taking about HIV, then yeah sure I fully agree but herpes is just a few 'cold sores' on your c0ck & balls for about a week. Then they go away and you forget about it. Just don't fvck anyone while you have the sores and you're golden.