Today I had my hair cut by an attractive hair stylist (at Supercuts). We had a decent conversation, and I was kind of attracted to her, and she seemed receptive and gave me a nice smile, but I didn't number close. And that occured when I was studying at a Barnes and Noble the other day and a cute girl sat down near me. We conversed for a bit but I left and didn't number close.
I realize that the man must initiate everything, because obviously a girl never has and never will, or else I would have gotten more action than I have (I am 26 years old and haven't kissed a girl). I think, that deep down, the reason I have been reluctant to ask a girl out is because I am afraid of starting a relationship and letting her know me. And the reason for that is probably because even after all these years I still really don't like myself.
So obviously I need to work on my self esteem. I guess I should focus on doing things that I enjoy, such as surfing, mountain biking, hiking etc. Also I should buy some nicer clothes because I don't really dress well. and also excercise and eat better...anyone have any thoughts or can relate to what I just said?
I realize that the man must initiate everything, because obviously a girl never has and never will, or else I would have gotten more action than I have (I am 26 years old and haven't kissed a girl). I think, that deep down, the reason I have been reluctant to ask a girl out is because I am afraid of starting a relationship and letting her know me. And the reason for that is probably because even after all these years I still really don't like myself.
So obviously I need to work on my self esteem. I guess I should focus on doing things that I enjoy, such as surfing, mountain biking, hiking etc. Also I should buy some nicer clothes because I don't really dress well. and also excercise and eat better...anyone have any thoughts or can relate to what I just said?