"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I am entering a slump..

DonGorgon

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My failure rate is going up substantially now after a good run of success.. it has caused a domino effect on me so im gona just chill on the hyper chasing and gaming for a while.. im gona take some me time.. i have Fed many many women over the past year and have nothing to show for it.

Maybe there is something i am missing!? maybe i need a break. im going to focus on my new job that is going great and reading and other hobbies.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Being in Slumps is part of the game
I've seen some of the best DJ's go through it even Naturals, this is a good time for growth and focus on other things.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=16444&highlight=slump
^^this thread has helped me a lot, remembering that you you are the prize and working on yourself is what true "self-improvment" is about

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=157617
^^also DOn you been thorugh this before, so just apply what worked for you then now, its not always easy but you gotta do some real self-assetment and look to see how you made it out

peace
 

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yup this is a bad one.. I have botched 3 layes got dumped and have not been number closing properly.. it al stemmed for the girlfriend i had for 3 weeks she threw of my who damn frame and now i have to rebuilt and get in state but its hard.. damn hard

I thought that the positive energy from my new job would bring success with women but not now it aint..

relationships always mess me up cause i really want love.. waa waaa waa..lol
 

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I would redirect my attentions. I love "the game" with women because it isn't my focus, stuff happens naturally, and it's always a surprise.
 
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