"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I am entering a slump..

DonGorgon

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My failure rate is going up substantially now after a good run of success.. it has caused a domino effect on me so im gona just chill on the hyper chasing and gaming for a while.. im gona take some me time.. i have Fed many many women over the past year and have nothing to show for it.

Maybe there is something i am missing!? maybe i need a break. im going to focus on my new job that is going great and reading and other hobbies.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Solomon

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Being in Slumps is part of the game
I've seen some of the best DJ's go through it even Naturals, this is a good time for growth and focus on other things.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=16444&highlight=slump
^^this thread has helped me a lot, remembering that you you are the prize and working on yourself is what true "self-improvment" is about

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=157617
^^also DOn you been thorugh this before, so just apply what worked for you then now, its not always easy but you gotta do some real self-assetment and look to see how you made it out

peace
 

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yup this is a bad one.. I have botched 3 layes got dumped and have not been number closing properly.. it al stemmed for the girlfriend i had for 3 weeks she threw of my who damn frame and now i have to rebuilt and get in state but its hard.. damn hard

I thought that the positive energy from my new job would bring success with women but not now it aint..

relationships always mess me up cause i really want love.. waa waaa waa..lol
 

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I would redirect my attentions. I love "the game" with women because it isn't my focus, stuff happens naturally, and it's always a surprise.
 
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