I am cute

[GADavid]

Anyone else always hear "you're cute"? I took it as a compliment for a long time until I realized it's not. Puppies and little kids are describe the same way. I think my appearance betrays any alpha type conditioning I learn.

Anyone ever find a way to go from being cute to sexy?


Also, I'm pissed and at an all time low in confidence bc I let a woman absolutely destroy me when I let my guard down with her. Never fall in love. There's no such thing

 

[crossedup]

Cute is better than being ignored bro. As someone who has experienced both and has recently become desirable, I know.

There are things you can do to change this. Work on your tone of voice, voice pitch and body language. I do mantras every morning to hype me up, but additionally to work on my speech. Also, grow facial hair and get a hairstyle considered sexy by most women. Hard to go into specifics without knowing exactly what you look like.

 

[Tiguere]

Facial hair isnt necessary if you have great bone structure. No face fat and a nice chiseled jawline.

 

[GADavid]

Older women say I look like Harry connick jr, if that helps

 

[GADavid]

I figure that my slender build (ectomorph) is making me appear younger too

 

[expos]

I have been called cute and also handsome. It is a compliment, trust me.

Quick story before I go to bed:

7 years ago, I chat up this chick who works at Starbucks. I would come in at least twice a week. I'm always dressed nice because I'm in business attire. After my fifth time coming in, I get brave and say after some small talk "Look, what you are going to do is put my number in your phone, then you are going to text me your number, and then we are going out." Bam, I get the text and set up the date with a text two days later.

We ended up going to a club together, and I meet her friends. At one point, she pulls her friend into the bathroom and they are gone at least 5 minutes. Her friend comes back and we talk a little bit. We start talking about how I met this girl and she goes on to say "she thinks you are sooo cute!".

20 minutes later, I'm making out with the Starbucks girl in her car.

Cute is a compliment....take it and run with it. Cute usually involves your face and not your body....so work on getting a lean, muscular physique, read the DJ Bible, and the women will drop at your feet.

 

[GS750]

I agree. I think girls use cute to mean handsome, good looking, etc. I was in line at a walgreens a few months ago and this 18-19 year old cutie behind me said "you're cute!". Take it as a compliment.

 

[Mike32ct]

I agree. I think girls use cute to mean handsome, good looking, etc. Take it as a compliment.

^This.