"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I am confused please help me lol

motosxe

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Here is my story. There is this girl in my speech class who one day decided to text me at midnight saying i am attached to you and i like you. My response was i ignored her for the rest of night because i was lol busy. Now next morning, she confronted me again this time and said the same thing but she had a boyfriend. She has given me all the signs of interest but i don't know what to do. Should i ignore this girl because of the fact that girls won't leave their boyfriends for another or continue to be persistent? By the way, im new to this forum.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Man this happened to me and you know what? I said screw it and left her alone. Two years later she tells my friends to tell me shes single (her bf of 6 yrs cheated on her). If she thought you were a better option she would dump her man. Don't be a jerk to her but don't bend over backwards either. Not worth your time
 

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Relax. Go through all the basics of attraction as quick as you can until you have a good understanding of the game.

For now, all i can say avoid everything desperate or afc-like. . Since she's got interest, its GAME ON!


Basically be a DJ as much as you can on her, ask for advice here and get an UNDERSTANDING ON HOW ATTRACTION WORKS! Be hard to get by not jumping to fulfill all her emotional wants regarding you both, but dont play unnecessary games......... if you play it cool, she'd totally be yours!

The good news is that, if you continue on this path..... THIS WOULD NOT BE THE LAST GIRL THAT WOULD WANNA GET WITH YA! Really dude.
 
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