"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I am about to drop a girl , I was this close finishing - salvageable?

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basically 2 nights ago, i was so close to getting laid, like i was basically unzipping her pants and everything..but had some LMR that I am too inexperienced to handle.

so, i asked her to come over and see some furniture today.. i was like she was so hot and I'll put up with her shyt today because I just want to get the lay,

she 'knew' that I was really wanting her, and she completely acting like a fccken female DJ .... giving me so much shyt,when she came over



SHe give me a lot of grief, resistence but in a jestful playful manner, but really frustrating me stuff like comparing to her ex and saying

how much she misses him , so I stopped that one quickly saying "So what, the fcck are you tell ing me this for?, you want to bring him here ?" and she stopped.

She wouldn't give me a time to see me again, she kept saying shes busying and...playfully saying " I don't want to see you do stuff with you" but playing like she was not serious

" i dont want to go out with you." ...and shyt like that even though I framed it well. saying she NEVER had a chance to out with me .

for an hour today, she made me feel like I was mental hedging like spinning wheels

just waisting time and my mental energy... so i am weighing .. I am so close to fccking this girl ....

should I continue put up with her shyt and just get the Lay?

or

The shyt shes making go through is not worth it , just drop it ?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Some people may waste their time with that type of BS but I dont.

And you say.. I am "This close" but are you really that close? Is she just playing with you non-stop cause you think you are that close?

Most of us on here dont play games with women and keep going at their games to get a lay. Just my opinion anyway. If I were you, I would have said GET LOST!
 
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To be honest don't say anything. I would stop calling her. Her interest is probably low to moderate. There is a chance you could still nail her, but in this situation she is the one who is going to have to be the aggressor. If you keep chasing her you probably will not get the lay. In the early stages of the relationship before you fvck the pu$$y woman I believe have the power in the relationship. They do the choosing. After that its all us. Let her choose you.
 
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lookyoung said:
To be honest don't say anything. I would stop calling her. Her interest is probably low to moderate. There is a chance you could still nail her, but in this situation she is the one who is going to have to be the aggressor. If you keep chasing her you probably will not get the lay. In the early stages of the relationship before you fvck the pu$$y woman I believe have the power in the relationship. They do the choosing. After that its all us. Let her choose you.
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I did let her chase, but I just showed interest just 1 time..

AAny suggestions on this strategy...

I am thinking of telling her I m leaving for 1 week so when I can reevaluate whether I want to continue this next sunday without burning this bridge by not communicating anything..?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I am thinking of telling her I m leaving for 1 week so when I can reevaluate whether I want to continue this next sunday without burning this bridge by not communicating anything..?


any suggestion on just this 1 part
 
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