Deadly_Assassin
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Jul 8, 2003
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Yes, I am going to make one of the biggest mistake in the DJ books. Be honest with the girl I like and tell her how I feel. And she even has a bf. But before you condemn me heres the situation:
I like the chick, I be myself and I play it cool, like dont act needy or anything, hardly text her... She starts to show the green lights, always complimenting me, touchy touchy, and randomnly gives me her home #. She tries on that same week to ask me if I wanted to hang with her, but I never reply to her text.
I end up turning into a real jerk, like when me her and a couple were out for lunch, I tell her how I went out with this other chick on a date to a party and she was really boring, so I dropped her home and came back to the party and hooked up with her mate. The chick kinda jokes about it, but she becomes really quiet and is always kinda looking the other way for the rest of the lunch.
I blew her off a few times, hardly complimented her, and acted like a true jerk. A time came when I went to a 21st and went and hooked up with these other two chicks and later on went and bragged about it to her mate, I was drunk, I know thats a lame excuse. Her mate kept asking me if I liked the chick, I kept saying no and that shes just a attention ***** whose leading me on and I could get her any day I wanted.... The next day I bragged again about the chicks in the party in front of the chick.
The day after, I said to her we need to talk. I said I was really sorry for saying all that crap about her to her mate and I didnt mean it and that I didnt look at her that way. That shes a cool chick and all but I dont look her that way. She had this really sad kinda look in her eyes and started saying exactly what I was saying.
Later on I rang her up and I tried to talk to her and again I kept bragging on and on. I bragged about the party, and then I tried to ask her out. She said she wanted someone genuine. I said I can handle a no and wanted to hang up. She kept saying she wanted to talk but I just hung up.
A couple of weeks later, I went to her uni with my guy mates. I didnt see her or anything. But one of her guy mates told her that I was at her uni with another chick. As soon as she heard it she came upto me ( we were at church ) and asked if it was true. She had a real pissed off hurt look on her face. She asked the question twice and I kept saying what? cause I had no clue what she was on about. She then said never mind and walked off. This was sort of mid october.
Well time passes on and I try to fix things by being more friendly and my old self again with her but nothing seems to work. Then I find out she has a bf. I go upto her and ask her if this is true in a kinda joking way and she doesnt deny it. We kinda talk 4 a while about it and how it happened. She said he kept asking her out and finally she says yes. I ask her when did that happen. She says end of October.
These are the conditions of her relationship with her bf, no touching, no trying to get attached, no unnecessary texts, hes 29 shes 19. And she says that shes going to keep her options open and even her bf is apparantly ok with it.
Well anyway, I am going to tell her how I feel and how I felt back then. I am going to Auz next monday so why not sort everything out b4 i go... What do u guys think?
I like the chick, I be myself and I play it cool, like dont act needy or anything, hardly text her... She starts to show the green lights, always complimenting me, touchy touchy, and randomnly gives me her home #. She tries on that same week to ask me if I wanted to hang with her, but I never reply to her text.
I end up turning into a real jerk, like when me her and a couple were out for lunch, I tell her how I went out with this other chick on a date to a party and she was really boring, so I dropped her home and came back to the party and hooked up with her mate. The chick kinda jokes about it, but she becomes really quiet and is always kinda looking the other way for the rest of the lunch.
I blew her off a few times, hardly complimented her, and acted like a true jerk. A time came when I went to a 21st and went and hooked up with these other two chicks and later on went and bragged about it to her mate, I was drunk, I know thats a lame excuse. Her mate kept asking me if I liked the chick, I kept saying no and that shes just a attention ***** whose leading me on and I could get her any day I wanted.... The next day I bragged again about the chicks in the party in front of the chick.
The day after, I said to her we need to talk. I said I was really sorry for saying all that crap about her to her mate and I didnt mean it and that I didnt look at her that way. That shes a cool chick and all but I dont look her that way. She had this really sad kinda look in her eyes and started saying exactly what I was saying.
Later on I rang her up and I tried to talk to her and again I kept bragging on and on. I bragged about the party, and then I tried to ask her out. She said she wanted someone genuine. I said I can handle a no and wanted to hang up. She kept saying she wanted to talk but I just hung up.
A couple of weeks later, I went to her uni with my guy mates. I didnt see her or anything. But one of her guy mates told her that I was at her uni with another chick. As soon as she heard it she came upto me ( we were at church ) and asked if it was true. She had a real pissed off hurt look on her face. She asked the question twice and I kept saying what? cause I had no clue what she was on about. She then said never mind and walked off. This was sort of mid october.
Well time passes on and I try to fix things by being more friendly and my old self again with her but nothing seems to work. Then I find out she has a bf. I go upto her and ask her if this is true in a kinda joking way and she doesnt deny it. We kinda talk 4 a while about it and how it happened. She said he kept asking her out and finally she says yes. I ask her when did that happen. She says end of October.
These are the conditions of her relationship with her bf, no touching, no trying to get attached, no unnecessary texts, hes 29 shes 19. And she says that shes going to keep her options open and even her bf is apparantly ok with it.
Well anyway, I am going to tell her how I feel and how I felt back then. I am going to Auz next monday so why not sort everything out b4 i go... What do u guys think?
