"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I am abnormally close-shave-impaired..Need some help here~.

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First off, let me say that it's not that I don't know how to shave.

I've done it all. All of the DJ tips, everything on the net, everything on this board, all types of razors, electric and manual, warm water, hot water, during a shower, after a shower, Mach 3, Quatro, Mach 3 Turbo, cheap bic razors, swords, M3 Power, with the grain, against the grain, lawnmowers, all at once, etc etc etc

The fact is, I have extremely rough facial hair. When I do shave, I usually take every surface hair off of my face. But here's the catch. It doesn't look like I shaved. At all. There has never been a time where I don't look like I have a five o'clock shadow, and I'm not talking the hip, cool five o'clock shadow..but rather the dirty, eww kind.

I've tried everything there is in terms of actual shaving, but I think it's the actual hair follicles under the skin that are showing. I've never seen anyone have a bad case of this as I do. Some people have a bit of a grayish tint in their beard area, but mine is simply ridiculous. It's not even razor bumps btw.

I'm wondering if there's something I can do about my skin care regimen that may help the area, because I've tried everything there is in terms of actual shaving. I don't want to resort to growing facial hair, because I want to live the rest of my youth clean shaven, and I certainly don't want to consider laser hair removal. But does anyone know what could cause this abnormal facial hair visibility?

Anyway, face skin care tips or anything that can solve this weird situation would be appreciated.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Take a hot shower. Let water splash on your face. Wash with "Nivea for Men Facial Wash." Do that as the last thing before you get out. Go to the sink after drying and take a washcloth and run it under really warm water and put it on your face for a bit. Then apply some good shaving cream (I use Nivea and I like it.) Spread it around your face a bit then let it stay a minute. Shave once with the grain, re-lather, and shave against. Then rinse with cold water and apply a GOOD lotion/moisturizer.

Do that everyday for a week and you should see a difference.
 

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hey I swore I posted on this....

Like I said before, or I thought I said before, really you are probably not using the razor right if you shave and still have a shadow. Make sure to use hot hot water before hand to bring out the hairs. then lather and shave, and rinse with cold. then put some after-'treatment' to soothe your skin... and

Moved to health and fitness
 

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I think what he is saying is that he can shave and get a completely smooth surface with no hair above or at the surface of the skin, but he still has the darkness of where the hair is under the skin. I have seen this before and I'm not sure there's much you can do about it. I would say it has more to do with your skin than shaving, maybe you need a way to thicken your skin to hide the hair underneath better? :confused:
 

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try waxing!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Don't even think about waxing before you consider electrolysis or laser hair removal. Both hurt just about as much as waxing. But you don't need to do it all the time (only like 5 or 6 times EVER). They can be expensive but I absolutely guarentee that you will be very satisfied with the results. To find a good doctor in your area go here...

www.hairremovalforum.com/docfinder.htm

(good lord I sounded like a commercial :eek: )
 

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as far as I know, laser is the nly solution for your trouble. You don't need to remove all the hair (For men it takes about 6-7 sessions for that) With 1 or 2 sessions your problems will most likely be solved . it will take about a grand or less depending on the doc.

I recommend you to take a free evaluation from a laser hair removal centre.
peace
 

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Originally posted by Drex
I think what he is saying is that he can shave and get a completely smooth surface with no hair above or at the surface of the skin, but he still has the darkness of where the hair is under the skin. I have seen this before and I'm not sure there's much you can do about it.
Indeed this is the problem. I've seen others have it, but no one even close to as bad as mine.

It does look like laser hair removal is the only clear solution, but not only do I not want to go through the process of it all, I don't want to completely kill the hair follicles. I want to be clean shaven now but I do want to have the option later to grow it in...you know, just like any other male.

Right now I'm trying to explore as many options as possible in terms of improving my SKIN to alleviate the darkening. There has to be a way.

Thanks for all of the replies though guys!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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